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I get why this guys first wife left him.
Quite seriously I wonder if he isn't a closet homo sexual and using every thing else as an excuse. Some thing just seems off. You don't say how his mother acts toward you.
Honestly though, 19 year olds get into toxic relationships with people their age who are manipulative and toxic. Afterwards they take it as a life lesson to recognize those flags. I think at the point you're 22 and he's 30, we've moved from “there's something inherently problematic with this” to “it's a bit concerning but could be fine”. To say nothing of the fact that we know nothing about their dating histories, how much experience they have etc. (Not that it isn't reasonable to presume that he has more).
In short, I think we need more info. I understand the mom's skepticism, and indeed if she has anything concrete about stuff he's done that's actually problematic that would be a huge red flag. But freaking out just over the age gap strikes me as overly protective.
I agree that preferences can be there, but at the same time would you want to be limited in what you can wear by your partner?
Like I wear stuff my husband doesn’t particularly love, but he would never stop me from wearing it if makes me happy. What rubs me the wrong way though is her blatant disregard and disrespect for him once he said that he thought he looked good in heels. Why would it be ok to call him delusional? She’s just downright closed minded and mean.
Above.
I'm most fixated on the possibility of my husband one day asking for an open marriage. I'm depressed about my mom being right and my husband possibly changing his mind to have a kid without me. Sounding like if I want to keep my husband, I have to explore that option of open marriage, which I really don't want to do.
Does that possibility seem reasonable to you? Was it something you had even considered or discussed with him before your mother said something about it?
I see in other comments you mention your cultural background is Asian. As I'm sure you know, there's a lot of cultural stuff bound up with having children, and having children by any means necessary, AND shaming those who do not have children, for any reason.
Your husband may change his mind in 10 years and decide he really does want to have children. Nothing you can do will change that. You two married with all the cards on the table as you held them at the time – that's all anyone can ask for. You can't tell the future, and neither can he, and neither can your mother.
I really urge you to seek counselling on this – it sounds like it is really affecting your life day to day in a very unhealthy way.
Without consent yes it’s abuse. The fact that he just went ahead and did it with no discussion before is very worrying. In my experience this type of behaviour escalates.
Be very careful. Have a discussion about it either way but I would have a get out plan ready.
Yeah, my ex did this to me once, too.
We weren't even arguing, though. He was (loudly) getting ready for work while I was still in bed. I asked him to turn off the closet light, and he walked over, lifted the pillow i had put over my face to block the light, and spat on me.
Turns out he had some serious fucking issues. Honestly, I think anyone who would do that to another person, especially one they're supposed to love, has some serious fucking issues.
What?!! Tell her to go F~~~ the F~~~ right off! Don’t wait for second place!
Those are dangerous waters. Perhaps a bit biphobic. If you trust her there’s nothing to worry about.