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Date: October 4, 2022
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That is disgusting. You guys need a serious conversation about how it’s not acceptable to force fetishes on someone. I would literally leave someone over this, pee is so nasty ?
Why would you try to force yourself to get over multiple infidelities? Come on. Just end it and move on.
“What do I even do here?”
Go to bars without him.
Right!!!!!!!
I think part of the work I need to do is organizing my thoughts in a way that I can express them the proper way…. So far I haven't managed to express that I feel her distant without her being taken aback and making her feel bad. I don't expect sex x5 per week, but I would actually like some more intimacy. It is difficult for me to not feel rejected, and I know this is not the kind of thing you ask for… It's not cool to be with someone only because they want to please you.
Yeah, I guess you’re right about that. A small kiss with friends has always been ok with me, but french kiss is way too much to be a friendly kiss.
I had my wisdom teeth out, tubes tied, and 2 ankle surgery’s where I couldn’t walk (one I had to stay in the hospital for 3 days). No one cared for me longer than maybe 12 hrs. Hell, even in the hospital I didn’t ask for much unless I couldn’t get it because I wasn’t allowed to get up. With that said, I know some people are different with pain tolerance but even with that consideration she is being ridiculous.
I’d just tell what you told us about not getting a lot of free time and him being there won’t take away from you being able to help if she needs. I’d reminder her you are doing this to help her and it’s not ok to try and dictate every thing you do.
Good luck. Relationships are naked and you are bound to have issues some because of you and some that are out of your control.
Just understanding this will make things easier as long as you are committed to making things work with your partner.
If you feel like it update me with how everything goes. I am really rooting for you. I have similar views as you it sounds like and live! in a state that people disagree. Sometimes it does make me mad but I can only try to teach my kids and people who I think are willing to listen to my thoughts.
What are his reasons?
If it’s money, pay for it yourself. If it’s stage fright, have a small ceremony and bigger reception.
If you two can’t find a way to compromise on a wedding which is one day then you’re not ready for a marriage which is supposed to be for the rest of your life. Much bigger challenges await you.
Dump. This is the beginning of him wanting you to feel bad for existing and having autonomy. No thanks. Pass.
Thanks for the context. It's important. So as it relates to money, he told you he'd make an effort to earn more income. He hasn't. You're absolutely right to be upset by that. I agree that life happening should be motivation, but you can't sit around waiting; you need to talk about it.
What's he doing (work wise) that allows him to sleep in until noon? If he works late shifts that's one thing. If he works part time and lives like a teenager, that's another. If it's the latter, then yes, it's time he should not just be spending being a father but fucking taking care of her while you work. How old is your daughter? Anecdotally again, as someone who'd entirely worked from home during COVID and largely does now, there was a point where I thought I could work while taking care of my infant and subsequently toddler daughter naively. I certainly learned it's incredibly difficult if not impossible, which I imagine is what you're experiencing but dealing with (kudos on you)
But then you tell us you agreed to the split of expenses and he's not holding up his end. So again, what's the reason for that? Is it because he legitimately can't afford it, or is it because he's spending his money elsewhere? What did he tell you? Add in the fact that he stopped paying for everything else. Again, why?
As for the gym, I fully agree with you there. I just want to focus more on what he's doing now work wise before trying to make extra money. I'm certain he should be working to make extra money, but I feel like the primary issue is his spending more than his lack of income, because how does he go from paying utilities to not?
I get what you were saying with God forbid he couldn't work. But that would exist whether he took on additional work or not. To be clear, I am absolutely 100% on your side here, I just don't think that's an argument.
Cheating? I assumed as much. But that means he's just insecure based on nothing, and that this will always be a problem. All you can do is lay out that him suggesting it is unacceptable and lay out boundaries for him saying it.
For dates, I honestly don't care all that much about the money in that situation. Actually, to back up, you logically shouldn't be going out if you're financially struggling as a family. But ignoring that, I'm focusing more on going out on dates in general. I don't care if he pays, you both pay, or if you pay. It's going out on dates. At this point, you need to be looking at this situation as “we” if you're going to stay with him. You shouldn't be assuming that you're not going on dates because he can't afford it. If he can't pay pills, then he obviously can't afford it.
At the end, I feel like you ignored my argument. I mean, I'm happy that you're saying the reasons to stay don't outweigh the reasons to leave, but I'm again telling you that that's never how you should make relationship decisions. Let's even just use an extreme example to drive the point home. Let's say he supported you financially, was a great parent, took you out on dates, bought you flowers, and said everything you wanted to hear. Amazing, right? But then he punched you square in the face. Would all those great things outweigh the fact that he's an abusive scumbag? Thankfully that's not the case here, but you're still unhappy. He's obviously going to defend himself by telling you that he does things and you don't appreciate it. It makes you second guess yourself. But you know the facts.