This relationship is very fresh so encountering differences in communication and styles of handling issues makes sense and is very common.
Have you brought to his attention how he is responding now?
Because he seemed very responsive and apologetic when you brought it up the first time – I am wondering if he absentmindedly defaulted to his old behavior of not communicating.
If you haven’t brought it up to him yet you can simply say “your responses are getting cold and you are being distant like last time. If there something bothering you – please feel comfortable to talk to me or just give me a heads up so I can give you space.“
If he keeps on being distant – match his energy while also thinking about your happiness , if your needs are being met, etc.
Also – if something hurts you and makes you feel a certain way in your relationship, you are not being overdramatic. Your feelings are valid! I do think the way it’s approached could be judged as “overdramatic” (I’m not saying it was wrong, I’m saying MAYBE) but you bringing up your concerns about your relationship is nothing dramatic.
Yeah, just break up. Once you've shown yourself to be untrustworthy, there's no coming back. She's trash.
Am I the only one who has no idea what a “scholarship kid” is?
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This relationship is very fresh so encountering differences in communication and styles of handling issues makes sense and is very common.
Have you brought to his attention how he is responding now?
Because he seemed very responsive and apologetic when you brought it up the first time – I am wondering if he absentmindedly defaulted to his old behavior of not communicating.
If you haven’t brought it up to him yet you can simply say “your responses are getting cold and you are being distant like last time. If there something bothering you – please feel comfortable to talk to me or just give me a heads up so I can give you space.“
If he keeps on being distant – match his energy while also thinking about your happiness , if your needs are being met, etc.
Also – if something hurts you and makes you feel a certain way in your relationship, you are not being overdramatic. Your feelings are valid! I do think the way it’s approached could be judged as “overdramatic” (I’m not saying it was wrong, I’m saying MAYBE) but you bringing up your concerns about your relationship is nothing dramatic.
And now his mom has his address.