Instead of blaming him, the actual abuser, they’re blaming you. I’m assuming in all this she hasn’t actually left him, so they’re scrabbling round for someone to blame so they don’t actually have to take some responsibility for the fact they’re still together and the parents can’t get he to leave, and she can blame you rather than leaving.
It is done by men in long term relationships that want to think they can still pull a woman without actually pulling cos that's cheating. They like the fiction you are providing, so they will keep leading you up the garden path.
I never liked kids until I had my own little crotchgoblins.
I’m ok with like nieces and nephews but I always look at them like, wow I really prefer my own flesh and blood.
My bf has two biokids and we’re blending a family soon. I love his kids as if they are my adopted kids, but they have their own mom in the picture still, so they’ll always treat me as a stepmom. Some days that’s the worst treatment you can ever inflict on a person, LOL, but some days they are ok.
I still am only in love with the two humans that came out of me.
Is it possible for you guys to stop babysitting this girl? So you can focus on your own relationship together?
Would appreciate any opinions many thanks
Her kids are all over 8 but apparently she still hasn’t learned
What in the loving fck did I just read?
Instead of blaming him, the actual abuser, they’re blaming you. I’m assuming in all this she hasn’t actually left him, so they’re scrabbling round for someone to blame so they don’t actually have to take some responsibility for the fact they’re still together and the parents can’t get he to leave, and she can blame you rather than leaving.
It is called breadcrumbing.
It is done by men in long term relationships that want to think they can still pull a woman without actually pulling cos that's cheating. They like the fiction you are providing, so they will keep leading you up the garden path.
It is cruel.
I never liked kids until I had my own little crotchgoblins.
I’m ok with like nieces and nephews but I always look at them like, wow I really prefer my own flesh and blood.
My bf has two biokids and we’re blending a family soon. I love his kids as if they are my adopted kids, but they have their own mom in the picture still, so they’ll always treat me as a stepmom. Some days that’s the worst treatment you can ever inflict on a person, LOL, but some days they are ok.
I still am only in love with the two humans that came out of me.
Is it possible for you guys to stop babysitting this girl? So you can focus on your own relationship together?
Well, obviously. I was more so asking for advice on how to handle it with my friends that work there.