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I personally think splitting the bill until you’re official makes sense. Why make someone else spend money on you when it’s just a few dates?
It might be a red flag, it might not. It’s something you’ll have to talk more about if you decide to keep seeing each other, vis a vis both of your expectations when dating.
The first step out the door is the hardest but oh man. Once you do it? The world opens up.
Lean on your parents; they will do what they can to help you.
Yeah no way those passwords were out like that after all this too
They've been dating 8 months. I doubt they live! together
There was no agreement. OP said that he acted accordingly to being still married. He never said they had an agreement about not dating or having sex with others. That's just what he assumed out of his own stand on that 'break'.
That's why such breaks never work. It's either you are in or you are out in a relationship. There is nothing in between. If you define that you are still married and dating / sex with others is off limits, then you don't have a break: you are in a commited relationship. And if you don't define that, than you can't expect that being broken up doesn't mean you can't have sex with others.
You did nothing wrong.
Why are you talking about consent? Completely inappropriate use of that term in this context.
Also been with my bf for two years. I agree, the honeymoon has never stopped, even when he uncovered the depth of past traumas and I went through a lot of mental/physical health issues. We've moved, had family troubles, friend troubles, deaths, been poor vs well off, etc…
Everything has just been so easy that eventually I stopped thinking “the other shoe might drop” and just decided to appreciate this must be what it's like to find someone grown and truly compatible.
Sounds kinda like she's cheating to be honest. The hotel thing was skep
We want to support our partners but at the end of the day, we are not responsible for fixing their mental health problems. Adults are supposed to take that responsibility in their own hands, whether it is by reaching out to friends for support, finding a good therapist, going to a doctor etc. If a person isn't doing what they can to work on themselves, the stagnation will inevitably lead to resentment.
I do think it's interesting that you specifically point out that she called you drunk this time and was “tearing up”. My guess is that she is just overall too emotionally fragile even while sober/normal and that you have been thinking about how you wish she were a little more emotionally resilient. Her getting drunk gave her a reason/excuse to let the emotional fragility out and that's probably what annoyed you.
As for what to do, you guys may just be incompatible. She's not a bad person for being insecure but she sounds like she has a lot of internal work to do and she just hasn't made enough progress. And honestly that's ok…people go at their own pace in life but you are not obligated to stay with her if the relationship isn't really what you want anymore.