It's your choice to have not asked for anything over 5 years, but that still doesn't make it reasonable to ask for an LT partner who is going out to check in with you while having fun? It feels kind of martyry — “I've never asked you for a thing. So please do this one, essentially unreasonable thing for me” know what I mean? We don't have to be on our partners' minds all the time. It's not healthy. What's really going on? Are you afraid she'll cheat? Do you think she doesn't care for you?
That's what I've been doing so far, but it's starting to get to me that it doesn't feel reciprocal.
It's your choice to have not asked for anything over 5 years, but that still doesn't make it reasonable to ask for an LT partner who is going out to check in with you while having fun? It feels kind of martyry — “I've never asked you for a thing. So please do this one, essentially unreasonable thing for me” know what I mean? We don't have to be on our partners' minds all the time. It's not healthy. What's really going on? Are you afraid she'll cheat? Do you think she doesn't care for you?
No she is not
She has boundaries and want him to respect them He was being casual
A solid decade of sinning sent me lol
Run, run far and fast my dude!