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Therapy is for this kind of issues. Tbh I dont think you can solve this on your own. For all we know your wife could be holding a grudge over some minor event from the beggining of your relationship back in a days or could have experienced traumatic events in childhood or could be simply thats she is raised that way (which is also traumatic but its not related with practical events)
Sit him down and make him swear he won't invest money or give her ANY money due to this being suspicious.
If he is going to met her, tell him to make sure it's not where you guys live! – it HAS to be somewhere very public, like a mall. No private, sexy meet up in some shady ass place where he can get shanked or jumped. Very public.
Other than that…wish him well. Not much else you can do, friend. He's an adult. He's going to make mistakes and have to learn from them. 🙁
I think the photo caught her off guard. She thought you were at work and then she receives a photo of you having a 1 on 1 lunch with a female coworker. From there she probably just got in her own head and spiraled a bit.
You call him the love of your life in your title yet proceed to belittle him. The part that stuck with me was the teeth. You actively made a point of showing how much effort you’ve put into your teeth while he hasn’t.
I would honestly cut your losses and focus on yourself. The old adage that “you can’t love anyone until you love yourself” is true. Doesn’t matter your success or status. You will be left feeling empty regardless of who you date and how much you love them until you love yourself.
Back to the teeth. That literally reads as an excessive need to validate due to low self confidence. And that’s okay. Start trusting and believing in yourself. Maybe find a therapist if you don’t have one. You’re not going to have a functional relationship with someone until you start having a functional relationship with yourself.
I mean, you're posting here because you know the answer and you want people to validate you.
Obviously, from the story you are telling, he is a terrible boyfriend who does not care about your boundaries, doesn't mind physically assaulting you to get his way, and treats you like property.
There's no real dilemma here.
As a note, you need to learn something very important. Stop laughing when these incidents happen.
I already said what I think about your boyfriend, but in at least some of these incidents your laughter makes his behavior at least somewhat defensible.
How could he know you are not “playing” if you are laughing when he is touching you repeatedly in a way you don't like? How could he know that you are not liking the back and forth when he pulls you from the couch and you laugh about it? At least in some of the cases you are sending mixed signals. I don't think your boyfriend would care even if you weren't laughing, but feeling one way and externally acting another way will confuse your future partners.
Therapy is for this kind of issues. Tbh I dont think you can solve this on your own. For all we know your wife could be holding a grudge over some minor event from the beggining of your relationship back in a days or could have experienced traumatic events in childhood or could be simply thats she is raised that way (which is also traumatic but its not related with practical events)
Its the best you can do besides just being there for her! Good luck!
I don’t have to worry about that because I trust her. Nice try though.
Shouldn’t you be putting it on my husband to find time to make sure his dogs who’ve been in his life longer than me, are comfortable around his child?
I think that’s how ill approach it actually. Thanks for the inspiration.
Sit him down and make him swear he won't invest money or give her ANY money due to this being suspicious.
If he is going to met her, tell him to make sure it's not where you guys live! – it HAS to be somewhere very public, like a mall. No private, sexy meet up in some shady ass place where he can get shanked or jumped. Very public.
Other than that…wish him well. Not much else you can do, friend. He's an adult. He's going to make mistakes and have to learn from them. 🙁
Are the kids even invited?
I dunno, a childfree night would sound pretty good to me. Not sure why you couldn’t leave the baby too. ?♀️
Call the police and have him arrested. She’ll be safe once he’s gone.
Girl, you best be calling him your ex boyfriend now.
I think the photo caught her off guard. She thought you were at work and then she receives a photo of you having a 1 on 1 lunch with a female coworker. From there she probably just got in her own head and spiraled a bit.
You call him the love of your life in your title yet proceed to belittle him. The part that stuck with me was the teeth. You actively made a point of showing how much effort you’ve put into your teeth while he hasn’t.
I would honestly cut your losses and focus on yourself. The old adage that “you can’t love anyone until you love yourself” is true. Doesn’t matter your success or status. You will be left feeling empty regardless of who you date and how much you love them until you love yourself.
Back to the teeth. That literally reads as an excessive need to validate due to low self confidence. And that’s okay. Start trusting and believing in yourself. Maybe find a therapist if you don’t have one. You’re not going to have a functional relationship with someone until you start having a functional relationship with yourself.
I mean, you're posting here because you know the answer and you want people to validate you.
Obviously, from the story you are telling, he is a terrible boyfriend who does not care about your boundaries, doesn't mind physically assaulting you to get his way, and treats you like property.
There's no real dilemma here.
As a note, you need to learn something very important. Stop laughing when these incidents happen.
I already said what I think about your boyfriend, but in at least some of these incidents your laughter makes his behavior at least somewhat defensible.
How could he know you are not “playing” if you are laughing when he is touching you repeatedly in a way you don't like? How could he know that you are not liking the back and forth when he pulls you from the couch and you laugh about it? At least in some of the cases you are sending mixed signals. I don't think your boyfriend would care even if you weren't laughing, but feeling one way and externally acting another way will confuse your future partners.
On to the next one and good luck.
She’s got a terrible hook in your mind. This isn’t what relationships look like in any way. Go cold turkey. Get away from this pseudo-relationship.
Found a gold nugget and wanted to melt it into a pen for you? Ok
How long did you date before marriage?
I feel like if she was gonna use this number to cheat on you she wouldn’t have told you…