straight up weird yo.. secretly loving somebody else but didnt want to lose me because I’ve always been there when she’s ready to panic or give up.. i helped her with the little shit she does have (apartment and car) by informing her stupid oblivious ass about credit and how to build it.
She made a mountain out of a mole hi when she decided to no longer communicate with her boyfriend, if she could have been an adult and actually communicated with OP this issue probably would have been resolved pretty fast, but instead she goes NC with the person she should be talking to, she locks herself away from him and essentially dumps him. Space is fine but taking weeks away from a relationship because “oh boo hoo my ex is engaged” she needs to grow up and realize people grow, he didnt marry her for whatever reason, maybe because he was idk 25 and young still, now OPs gf has thrown away a seemingly healthy relationship because of insecurities. She needs therapy to figure out how not to run away from problems. Why does she deserve empathy but OP doesnt? She feels rejected from her EX well guess what she is now doing the same damn thing with her current bf.
100% sure that after the 3 months are up (weird arbitrary number..?) he's going to have a different excuse for not doing his bit. I'm mad on your behalf OP. I would ask him how this arrangement is fair towards you or how he intends to make it fair, maybe insist that he take on the next 3 months of cleaning by himself while do nothing help..? Maybe suggest that outright and completely change how you divide chores, you do 1 week/month, he does 1 week/month with zero interference from the other?
He doesn’t want to. He says he doesn’t “want to work for anybody” anymore. (?)
straight up weird yo.. secretly loving somebody else but didnt want to lose me because I’ve always been there when she’s ready to panic or give up.. i helped her with the little shit she does have (apartment and car) by informing her stupid oblivious ass about credit and how to build it.
She made a mountain out of a mole hi when she decided to no longer communicate with her boyfriend, if she could have been an adult and actually communicated with OP this issue probably would have been resolved pretty fast, but instead she goes NC with the person she should be talking to, she locks herself away from him and essentially dumps him. Space is fine but taking weeks away from a relationship because “oh boo hoo my ex is engaged” she needs to grow up and realize people grow, he didnt marry her for whatever reason, maybe because he was idk 25 and young still, now OPs gf has thrown away a seemingly healthy relationship because of insecurities. She needs therapy to figure out how not to run away from problems. Why does she deserve empathy but OP doesnt? She feels rejected from her EX well guess what she is now doing the same damn thing with her current bf.
100% sure that after the 3 months are up (weird arbitrary number..?) he's going to have a different excuse for not doing his bit. I'm mad on your behalf OP. I would ask him how this arrangement is fair towards you or how he intends to make it fair, maybe insist that he take on the next 3 months of cleaning by himself while do nothing help..? Maybe suggest that outright and completely change how you divide chores, you do 1 week/month, he does 1 week/month with zero interference from the other?
Talk to her.
she doesn't want to give your last name to your child
She wants to hyphenate. The child will have both their last names.
?????? congratulations, time to reconnect with your friends too well-done girl!!!