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Date: October 6, 2022
Jane Servus, 19 y.o.
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He may be gay but she’s still straight. So why does she think that a gay guy doing it to her is OK? He’s still a guy and she’s still a girl who will respond to a guy’s body.
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He do it on purpose. He want to push to your limit and then go even further because he knows you won’t stand up for yourself, he want you to feel worthless so you will never leave him.
It is up to you if you want this to continue, but he would only get worse.
Imagine the friendships you could be building if you spent the energy you put into this guy meeting new people. He’s not willing to put in the energy to fix it or even show up for you.
It's very difficult to explain that dynamic in a relationship to someone who's never been on the receiving end. But if your partner is abusive and accusatory, it is very normal to jump to defend yourself at every little thing.
This is so true. I would never have believed it if it didn't happen to me.
I experienced it once where my girlfriend honestly thought every female person I knew was trying to get with me and I had cheated with most of them. Anytime I didn't meet her hidden criteria for time spent at work/gym/phone response/groceries was me doing something funny behind her back. She would ask questions that, similarly to the OP, would technically be innocent “Was traffic bad today?” but with such a snide inflection/emphasis on words that I knew she was yet again jumping to conclusions and made up her mind that I must have been fooling around with someone before coming home. And honestly she just wanted to fight it seems rather than try to come to any understanding of what happened as one quote from her was “ughhh….you just want to always talk…[obscenity filled tirade]”.
It was so odd being in that type of relationship and fortunately it didn't last too long when it got to that point.
Unfortunately people are able to hide beliefs and behaviors better when living apart. It’s easy to talk about feminism it’s a lot harder to hide sexist tendencies when you live with someone full time. Think back to visiting with his parents… did he ever help his mom around the house? Clean his dishes? Help with dinner? If you never saw him help her in any way it’s probably not a new belief systems for him and it’s not going to be based on the earning potential. You work and you provide 100% of the sweat equity in your home. Some people are fine with this dynamic. If it works for them great. Based on the info you have shared it sounds like he wants a woman to take over everything his mom used to do for him…. If that’s the case your not married yet and it’s not too late to call it off.