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I see his other comments now, never mind!
You‘re 20… you are bareley a „true“ adault. Take your time, have some fun, build yourself a nice nest before you settle down. Im m26 and still dont want to settle down because why should i give up all the free time i have? I wanna travel, explore, do my hobbys. Also, the chance of you becoming a single mother is way higher than lets say in your 30s because most young men as myself just want to have fun and not settle down
Do you want to hurt her feelings? You seem like a kind person, I bet you don’t.
Try to take the word “criticism” out of your thought process. She’s not being critical, she’s being honest about her feelings. Remind yourself that she’s not having these feelings to make you feel bad, she’s feeling bad.
Once you’ve accepted that this isn’t criticizing, think about how important these statements or actions are to you. Some things we think, say and do are incredibly important. There are things that are a part of who we are and what we believe. Other things we say and do have little meaning for us. Accept that these actions/statements are hurtful to her. Are they so important to you that you need to continue them? If so, that’s a conversation you need to have, and it could mean the end of your relationship. But she deserves to know what things are non-negotiable for you. Or maybe, you will decide ceasing these behaviours will be worth it to you, considering it could really improve your relationship.
Another piece of advice is for your girlfriend: speak in the moment. If something bothers you, it’s better to deal with it immediately. People tend to feel attacked when the past is dragged up.
The more you try to control him, the more freedom time he’s going to want. You’re holding the wrong person accountable for your own insecurity.
How do you think you make him feel? Would you enjoy being with you???
OP, yes you need to leave, and you also need to work on yourself. Looks like there is abuse on both sides of this relationship. You acknowledge it in your post, but seem to always lay the blame on your partner.
My mother always did this, yes my father was abusive, but my mom also used it as her excuse to abuse him and others around her.
It was always he who made her act like this. Never took responsibility for her own actions, even though she was starting the pattern as much as him.
I also urged my mother to leave and who ask you to do the same, he will not change, you need to get out. But recognise, that you need to change too.