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Date: November 5, 2022
Bro. Just tell her to brush her teeth and wash her mouth out before coming over. Be honest. Either way you win. You win if she fixes her breath and you win if she doesn't want to talk to you again. Honesty is truly the best policy.
There is not much you can do. She has to want it, like REALLY want it, because addiction is strong! Maybe you should give her the contact information of various ressources (working with SA survivors for exemple and if I understand you well) and tell her that you are here for her if you want, and then back off. You don’t want her to equate that you help her so she will get back with you, because the way you insist could give her this impression. I know it is naked, but there is nothing you can do if she doesn’t want to put in the work.
She has bad relations with her whole family (mother, father, sister) .
There's your answer right there OP, she's an asshole to everyone.
It’s like I’m helping him and all my nude work is going nowhere . I’m frustrated at this point , and I’m realizing his lack of responsibility financially is becoming something hugely unattractive.
What incentive does he have to get his act together? He's a grown man who has you to take care of him and make every adult decision for him.
He's not going to change. In fact, it's likely that he'll get worse if you do get married. Do you want to be holding his hand like a child's for the rest of your life?
I think sharing her past has caused issues in other relationships. I think it's odd that she wanted so much information on your own past relationships in the first few dates.
Her inability to open up to you about her past while simultaneously asking so much about yours leads me to believe that there is something in her past that previous partners have found to be deal breakers or have struggled to accept.
Withholding this info from you is entirely up to her, but i feel it is unfair to you to not be allowed to make that decision for yourself.
You could try asking her, “Is there something in your past that you feel if I knew I would not continue our relationship? You dont have to tell me what it is now, but not knowing could cause issues later if i were to find out some other way.”
She was drunk making out with this guy who had his hands on her tits, they go back to his room, she comes back in the morning. They definitely fucked. Get your head out of your ass. Don’t let her gaslight and manipulate you.
I feel like a lot of people have covered a lot here, so I just want to mention emdr. It’s worth looking into with your therapist. It’s super helpful for acute trauma like you describe.
Do you know how to cook? Do you know how to do your own laundry? Do you know how to clean? Grocery shop? Meal plan? Can you manage your time to get all tasks for the day done including eating, work and house work? If your answer is no to any of these, learn first then move out. It’d be really shitty of you to do the thing that most guys do where you move straight from your moms house to your girlfriends house and expect her to be your new mommy.
I'm sorry you're going through that. It can be a very… Soul sucking experience for everyone.
It's a proven fact that if you get mad at your kids, make threats, and scream, they're not going to listen unless or until you scream. That coupled with threats/not following through is the worst. You know this, so I'm just validating – she is creating her own havok and unhealthy relationships.
I hope she chooses to change before she loses all of you. Props to you for wanting to be a better version of yourself!
he's sleeping. It's a dream. It doesn't mean anything about anything.