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Jenny katty, 19 y.o.
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Yeah daddy dearest has been like this for as long as I can remember… He is out of the picture now, there is no coming back from this for him. The uncles on the other hand hurt a lot more, I know they are afraid of him, but this just feels like a whole other level. I do like your suggestion that they have to disavow my dad, because I feel like if they can at least recognize that they are being manipulated and bullied maybe there is redemption for them
But aside from that things are great? /s
I took a look at your profile, and I'm going to take a different approach here:
My friend, you're heading down the wrong path. Trust me on this one, because I headed down this same path when I was your age about 10 years ago. I had some atrocious and honestly deeply embarrassing approaches to making moves on women.
I noticed the way you worded your question, and it felt off to me, which is why I had to check your profile just to make sure. As I expected, I saw you post this same thing on another subreddit for some dude called Coach Corey Wayne.
The best thing you can do for yourself right now is to delete every word that dude has ever said from your brain. Throw it in the trash, and start from scratch. It's worthless garbage, it's never going to work out for you. These self-help and pick-up coaches are con men, and what they're selling is a simple and easily digestible narrative about dating.
The truth is that dating is complicated, because people are complicated. There are no shortcuts, there are no tricks, and if there were they definitely wouldn't be whatever this guy is claiming they are. Usually the advice these people give are things that lead you to ask someone out the way you did here, which is an objectively terrible way to do it. I'm not going to go into why, because you already have plenty of comments telling you why.
My advice to you is to take a break, and stop focusing on how you can get better at dating. You're 20, you're still figuring yourself out, and the most attractive thing you can ever do is to go ahead and figure yourself out. You'll never figure yourself out by trying to follow guides from self-help gurus or dating coaches, because that's just going by what someone else thinks you should be. You have to figure out what you think you should be.
Right now you're inundated with cultural messages about what you as a man should be. Stoic, strong, successful with women, assertive, direct, and so on. That doesn't necessarily match with what you truly want to be deep inside, though. The best thing you can do for yourself is to stop following the script you've been told to follow, and start writing your own. How do you do that? Hell if I know, figuring that out is part of the journey, because it's a different journey for everyone.
At the end of the day, once you figure out yourself, and feel like you're able to be a person you like and a person you're proud of being – other people who like that person will be attracted to you both platonically and romantically. From there it's all honestly very natural, because they're attracted to you because of who you are. There's nothing easier than just being who you are once you've figured yourself out.
This is not at all weaponized incompetence. What this sounds like is compatibility/communication issues on expectations sprinkled in heavily by even more communication issues.
He sounds immature, and you two have trouble communicating.
What you should first address is the “I shouldn't have to tell you.” . That is rude and also a complete lack of communication. I would even go as far as to say immature.
You need to address the communication and immaturity issues first. Then, the laundry expectations.
“Step brother” yea my ass lmao ? probably fucked him as well. Might be a reason she mad mad.
He’s a fuckwit.