Yes, well, if it is any consolation I definitely concur that him going knee deep with her definitely reads as a rebound. He had the right idea being single but I guess the two of them just started licking each others' wounds and it went from there. Likely that doesn't end well though even if it does that still didn't make it a sensible choice on top of how clumsily he handled it.
It isn't really about you lacking anything, more that the two of them at the time had overlapping feelings and the ways those tend to play off each other.
She can’t have it both ways
Yes, well, if it is any consolation I definitely concur that him going knee deep with her definitely reads as a rebound. He had the right idea being single but I guess the two of them just started licking each others' wounds and it went from there. Likely that doesn't end well though even if it does that still didn't make it a sensible choice on top of how clumsily he handled it.
It isn't really about you lacking anything, more that the two of them at the time had overlapping feelings and the ways those tend to play off each other.
This is a great topic to discuss with a therapist. Having a kid is going to bring up a lot of feelings about your own parents.