There is no issue in telling him that you don't want to go on this trip because it's with two men. This would be dangerous, irresponsible, and foolish given how we on-line in a world where women even in the US still get kidnapped.
Skip the birthday party. I also suspect that your friends may have messaged him and told him how wrong he was so he caved under pressure and apologized. So now you can forgive him and be one big happy family again. See how neat everything worked out?
Personally, seeing that his first instinct was to choose your ex, knowing what he did, and excluding you to accommodate him?! Yeah, no. I wouldn’t burn any bridges maybe but I would not go to the party and I would never forget this.
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It's 2023.
There is no issue in telling him that you don't want to go on this trip because it's with two men. This would be dangerous, irresponsible, and foolish given how we on-line in a world where women even in the US still get kidnapped.
Your husband and your best friends are pieces of sh*t.
Skip the birthday party. I also suspect that your friends may have messaged him and told him how wrong he was so he caved under pressure and apologized. So now you can forgive him and be one big happy family again. See how neat everything worked out?
Personally, seeing that his first instinct was to choose your ex, knowing what he did, and excluding you to accommodate him?! Yeah, no. I wouldn’t burn any bridges maybe but I would not go to the party and I would never forget this.