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  1. He’s told you he doesn’t want to stop and would like to separate. Unless you imagine that you’ll stop being disturbed by it, I would heed his wishes.

  2. That's some immature friends right there, but that's for another day.

    If he finds out he finds out, I guess. I mean, you could ask him if he wants to know all the gory details of your time being single? If he says Yes, then go ahead. If not, Not. And again – didn't he tell you directly he didn't want to know? Take him at his word.

    Meanwhile please think about what I wrote about how he should react to this if he is told. However he takes it will reveal his maturity and character.

  3. No No NO. If you want to lose weight, you do it for YOURSELF not for anyone else. If he's not sexually attracted to you now, he will not be when you lose weight either. And if he tells you he is, you will be under constant stress to not gain back the weight because if you do he will leave you. You need and deserve a man who loves you just the way you are right now, and if you lost 50lbs next year, he would still love you, and if you gained 100 back he would love you even more and always praise you and tell you how perfect you are.

  4. Read the top comment. It’s nothing to do directly with the ex or current boyfriend. It has to do with the mourning of time lost and a sense of inadequacy. It may not be something you’d feel but it doesn’t make it not valid. I also don’t blame the boyfriend for having a very hot time with it either. They need to communicate better. I think jumping to wanting to break up without speaking to your partner is a huge leap and lacks empathy. If he voices his issues and she isn’t responsive then that is most definitely a red flag. Right now she may just not realize how it is affecting him because she is mourning.

  5. A relationship based on poor communication and manipulation isn't a good relationship. You can do better. Be kind to yourself and be happy he wants to end the relationship.

  6. What he’s saying is not biologically accurate. There is nothing you need to do to fix anything, but he needs to come to terms with the fact that he appears to have decreased sensation in his penis and learn not to shame others into putting up with his unaddressed problems. And he needs to learn some basic biology.

  7. You are married to a bad person. Everyone deserves autonomy and to accomplish their goals. You are submissive/codependent and he is taking advantage of that.

  8. Yeah I did.

    Shit's wild, and I feel that the fact they're high school sweethearts and OP was very young when they got together explains why she's kinda blind to what a controlling uncompromising ass the bf is being. It's like he decides how things are and that's it and no discussion is ever possible and any argument is being hysterical, while he's supposedly “perfectly rational” with his insane hangups like “things can't be stacked in the cupboards and this is why often used things must be placed beyond reach” or “we must have our own sets of pots etc and you can't touch mine” or what the fuck ever.

    Like he's incredibly controlling, and OP just accepts is just how he is. And having lived with a dude like that for 6 years, having normalized all this insanity, explains why she's asking how she can address her bf blatantly stealing her stuff (because he doesn't want to donate anything of his, so chooses her stuff instead) “without causing an argument” or “getting. in trouble with his work”.

    Because the bf absolutely sounds like kind of person who, when asked to donate something for sick kids, just doesn't wanna and opts to steal someone else's stuff to donate in his name instead, and would then act like preventing the theft would somehow make him unable to donate his own stuff and blame not giving anything on the person whose property he tried to steal.

  9. Also, at this point, who even cares where else he might be sticking his dick if who he is has you this fucking insane? Basically I'm at the exact point of Cloud's comment and hmt5592's comment: why do you even want him at this point when this is what things have become? Checking pings, timestamps, reverse looking up phone numbers, going back to check calendars and dates to align with a phone call log? Wouldn't you rather be doing…I dunno…fucking anything else? Making pottery, learning to ski, staring at a blank fucking wall?

    Whatever it was, he ruined it. I wouldn't want it anymore. Do you want to be the partner that would have to control and lock him down so tight that he never has the chance to do this to you again? Or be sad for awhile and move on with your life?

  10. Hi! I have BPD and I have been dating my boyfriend since September (so around 7 months now?). It’s crazy to me how similar our situations are, my BF recently turned 29 and I am turning 23 next month!

    I thought I could give you some insight on my situation and also my progress so far to help you with yours / maybe give you some hope.

    Before me, he was not in a relationship for 7-8 years. It amazed me how he went so long without being with anyone at first too, but I soon came to realize it was because 1) he never put himself out there so there was no real opportunity 2) he was too focused on getting into med school to care about girls 3) he learned to really love his individuality and being by himself. At first, it was nude to adjust because I have a clingier personality than him. However, me realizing that the fact that he gave up 7-8 years of solitude & just chilling drama-free by himself to be in a relationship with me makes me feel SO special. I think I fell first (I felt like I loved him 3 months in) but eventually he fell harder.

    People like you and my bf have been alone for soooo long, they take relationships and commitment way more seriously because that means your presence in their lives HAS to feel better than their peaceful solitude. It will take them more time for feelings to fully develop / for them to realize that they actually already love you but just didn’t trust their emotions 100% enough to say it. Be patient!

    Also, my BPD used to be really bad and it would make me feel extremely insecure and angry at myself but I have actually made so much progress and I really encourage you to seek BPD focused therapy and try reading books on regulating your emotions! It really helped me and now I feel like I am truly in the best relationship of my life. We have healthy boundaries and communication and I can hear AND feel how much he loves me—both through words and actions. I think it’s okay for one person to not be on the same page / level yet because I assure you, if he really loves you—he will fall way harder in the end. Give it some time and don’t pressure him! You don’t want him to say it if he doesn’t mean it. Trust me, that will hurt more.

    If he is the right one, you guys have forever to figure it out & say “I love you” as many times as you both genuinely want to. Best of luck to you two ??

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