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I went 18 months without alcohol. Everything in my life, health wise improved drastically, but my sex life got worse. I can’t explain it at all. I appreciate your outlook!
He raped you once, and by staying you’re telling him it’s ok to rape you. He CAN control himself, he just chose not to. Break up and drop all contact for your own safety. I read that he may kill himself if you leave? That’s a manipulation technique. What you do is leave him. If he threatens suicide or implies he’s going to kill himself, you contact emergency services. Treat each threat seriously without involving yourself, and he’ll drop it real quick.
I'm curious about your NB status. What exactly did this bullying girlfriend do to you, in specific terms, and does it have anything to do with you being NB?
Doesn't matter, at this point she's very blatantly lying to herself “I wouldn't change anything now, but I regret my decisions so much I would change them if I could”…. Not the words of someone happy on their position or fully aware that she is ready to leave him.
Unless there’s some sort of language or cultural barrier (which honestly wouldn’t be excuse at this point), you’ve been working together everyday for a year.
He largely gets it right, so he knows your name. Early on I could understand. Now? Absurd.
What’s your name? If you’re uncomfortable sharing, no worries. PM me if you’d like, but also no worries if you’re uncomfortable there as well. Is it a difficult name? Either way, I’m struggling to find an excuse for him after this amount of time.
You said it’s affecting your working relationship, which makes it a real problem. I know you’ve said it in front of your boss, but have you spoken to them privately? They might not realize it’s bothering you.
Yikes. I‘ve received a few flower bouquets that were ugly af and still acted like they were beautiful. Because it‘s about the gesture. Who gives a fuck about what they look like..
Personally I don't think you should express any insecurities to him, because he will likely exploit them. Tbh I would be surprised if he isn't aware it's making you feel insecure already, because that's a thing people with control issues do to manipulate you into never expressing your distress or your needs. You're sharing a bank account with this man who graduated while you were in kindergarten and don't even feel like you can ask about meeting his friends without being perceived as doing something wrong. That's extremely not normal. And he knows this. The man is pushing 40, and no woman his age would put up with this.
No problem. And also, don't sweat about whether you're a “real man” or not. As long as you're happy with yourself and you have a loving partner, that is all that matters. Wish you the best, mate.
I went 18 months without alcohol. Everything in my life, health wise improved drastically, but my sex life got worse. I can’t explain it at all. I appreciate your outlook!
Send him a link to potential break up song by aly & aj
He raped you once, and by staying you’re telling him it’s ok to rape you. He CAN control himself, he just chose not to. Break up and drop all contact for your own safety. I read that he may kill himself if you leave? That’s a manipulation technique. What you do is leave him. If he threatens suicide or implies he’s going to kill himself, you contact emergency services. Treat each threat seriously without involving yourself, and he’ll drop it real quick.
I would 100% break up. He went to her apartment, alone, and stayed a significant amount of time? 95% certain they had sex.
if he has feelings for you he wouldn't be sleeping with someone else
Why do you assume that? Sex and love aren't the same thing and poly exists / is a natural state.
I'm curious about your NB status. What exactly did this bullying girlfriend do to you, in specific terms, and does it have anything to do with you being NB?
“all her Disney 'crap'”.
There you go again. You're so dismissive of it. This is a thing she loves.
Doesn't matter, at this point she's very blatantly lying to herself “I wouldn't change anything now, but I regret my decisions so much I would change them if I could”…. Not the words of someone happy on their position or fully aware that she is ready to leave him.
Hilariously accurate
He is literally leaving shit for you. He doesn’t respect you at all. He might even hate you. It’s abuse.
Excellent way to start a marriage. Playing tit-for-tat. /s
OP, do not listen to this terrible advice.
Unless there’s some sort of language or cultural barrier (which honestly wouldn’t be excuse at this point), you’ve been working together everyday for a year.
He largely gets it right, so he knows your name. Early on I could understand. Now? Absurd.
What’s your name? If you’re uncomfortable sharing, no worries. PM me if you’d like, but also no worries if you’re uncomfortable there as well. Is it a difficult name? Either way, I’m struggling to find an excuse for him after this amount of time.
You said it’s affecting your working relationship, which makes it a real problem. I know you’ve said it in front of your boss, but have you spoken to them privately? They might not realize it’s bothering you.
Yikes. I‘ve received a few flower bouquets that were ugly af and still acted like they were beautiful. Because it‘s about the gesture. Who gives a fuck about what they look like..
10% of the time is one out of 10 days. That’s a lot more than every month and a half. The math ain’t mathing.
Personally I don't think you should express any insecurities to him, because he will likely exploit them. Tbh I would be surprised if he isn't aware it's making you feel insecure already, because that's a thing people with control issues do to manipulate you into never expressing your distress or your needs. You're sharing a bank account with this man who graduated while you were in kindergarten and don't even feel like you can ask about meeting his friends without being perceived as doing something wrong. That's extremely not normal. And he knows this. The man is pushing 40, and no woman his age would put up with this.
No problem. And also, don't sweat about whether you're a “real man” or not. As long as you're happy with yourself and you have a loving partner, that is all that matters. Wish you the best, mate.