He said it was my problem to deal with since he had already talked to her about it and got closure
Your boyfriend's being a bitch.
you do not want to be with someone who can't set clear boundaries with an ex, especially when said ex is playing the victim and your boyfriend is eating that shit up.
This is definitely grounds to break up with him especially if this has been a serious problem the entirety of the relationship. Have some backbone and break up.
I personally would not put someone else name on a home I solely purchased. Same goes if my SO paid for a house- it would be only his. I would pay out her portion of what she put in if it’s a big deal. But 10k and 100k are significantly different and it doesn’t seem fair in my eyes for her to take ownership when she isn’t actually putting anything towards it.
What the hell did I just read? Your wife is physically abusive and your first thought is if you should still take martial arts? Are you fucking kidding? Get the hell out of this relationship dude, what are you even doing?!
Holy fuck the fat acceptance replies in this are atrocious, if he were a smoker would you want to date him long term? Look at it with a different perspective, you yourself are not that happy with your current weight, if you were looking for someone long term would you not take health into account?
Do you not know or haven't talked to women (and men, for that matter) who did exactly this as teenagers? Or people who ignore a Soviet May Day parade's worth of red flags? Nothing about this strikes me as unbelievable, or even that unusual.
Ignore these assholes, OP; every real advice post is hypothetical for all but one person, so fake posts aren't even that much different, being hypothetical for everyone. People who would rather feel smug than offer advice in good faith are the trolls; there's no good reason for them to be posting to an advice forum in the first place.
which i understand but i knew nothing about it & she didn’t talk to me about it & my fiancées cousin had to be the one to tell me a day before, & when i originally reached out about the first i asked if that worked, she agreed to it that’s why i’m lost lol
I got pregnant early on in the relationship and wanted to keep a family. We really tried to work on things but I just don't feel like he loves me and certainly not the way I want to be loved. It hurts to be so lonely but watch him love our daughter with no limits ..
*intimate/intimacy
what I'd like to know is why did your mil decide to call you everytime her son was acting up?
He said it was my problem to deal with since he had already talked to her about it and got closure
Your boyfriend's being a bitch.
you do not want to be with someone who can't set clear boundaries with an ex, especially when said ex is playing the victim and your boyfriend is eating that shit up.
This is definitely grounds to break up with him especially if this has been a serious problem the entirety of the relationship. Have some backbone and break up.
Well one key indicator is whether they are happy for your successes and push you towards them or if they resist you seeking further success.
As a son from disfuncional parents, I can tell you, she's better without a mother like that. I wish my mom dumped my father way earlier.
I personally would not put someone else name on a home I solely purchased. Same goes if my SO paid for a house- it would be only his. I would pay out her portion of what she put in if it’s a big deal. But 10k and 100k are significantly different and it doesn’t seem fair in my eyes for her to take ownership when she isn’t actually putting anything towards it.
Blocking you? How mature /s
Why are you with a man that abuses your cat? Very small step from abusing animals to abusing people
What the hell did I just read? Your wife is physically abusive and your first thought is if you should still take martial arts? Are you fucking kidding? Get the hell out of this relationship dude, what are you even doing?!
Holy fuck the fat acceptance replies in this are atrocious, if he were a smoker would you want to date him long term? Look at it with a different perspective, you yourself are not that happy with your current weight, if you were looking for someone long term would you not take health into account?
She's fishing. She didn't even get the message. Trust me. Women will keep that stuff and start literal folders of evidence against you if it's real.
She was hoping you'd cop to something because she doesn't trust you.
Often that means that she's done something bad and wants to get off the hook for it, not always.
The person doing the accusing and being paranoid is USUALLY the one up to the shady shit.
“I lied to him and said I was 18 when I was 16”
Do you not know or haven't talked to women (and men, for that matter) who did exactly this as teenagers? Or people who ignore a Soviet May Day parade's worth of red flags? Nothing about this strikes me as unbelievable, or even that unusual.
Ignore these assholes, OP; every real advice post is hypothetical for all but one person, so fake posts aren't even that much different, being hypothetical for everyone. People who would rather feel smug than offer advice in good faith are the trolls; there's no good reason for them to be posting to an advice forum in the first place.
She enjoyed fucking someone else's husband too. And now she is playing victim on reddit.
which i understand but i knew nothing about it & she didn’t talk to me about it & my fiancées cousin had to be the one to tell me a day before, & when i originally reached out about the first i asked if that worked, she agreed to it that’s why i’m lost lol
I got pregnant early on in the relationship and wanted to keep a family. We really tried to work on things but I just don't feel like he loves me and certainly not the way I want to be loved. It hurts to be so lonely but watch him love our daughter with no limits ..
I see the posts now ?
This is the bit that gets me even more than the cheating.
I’d be rethinking that kid with him
☝️☝️?
Yikes. Time to break it off if his interests still include chatting up teenagers.