Go back to work full time and make sure your husband has to do half of the household chores. Your youngest is old enough and in school all day. Don’t depend on your husband for your financial support, as it sure sounds like he has little respect for you. Regain your independence.
This is the one. OP, don't strap yourself or a kid to someone who is cruel and unstable. If you have access to other options, I would suggest you take them.
THIS!!! A 10000000%. You were sexually assaulted. More than once. Please let the other two women know. They DESERVE to know what those two disgusting , perverted rapists did. I am so sorry this has happened to you. I cannot even begin to imagine the pain and betrayal you feel now. Please speak to someone who specializes in counseling victims of SA. please know you have people who are thinking of you, whether it’s offering up a prayer for healing and support, or keeping a good thought for you and hoping you receive all the love and care and support and strength that you need.
The question I think is: in what way do you want your parents to be part of your life? Figure that out, and you know how to approach this. Sure, they can still be dismissive and rude, but that's their choice. You can only change your own approach and response, not their's. If you want them in your life, do this the nice way and try to involve them. If you don't, just treat them like extended family. Send me a card after birth and if they make a fuzz about not being involved, remind them of their earlier remarks and actions.
Why are you telling us and not her? If she’s the cool chick you say she is she’s going to get it.
Go back to work full time and make sure your husband has to do half of the household chores. Your youngest is old enough and in school all day. Don’t depend on your husband for your financial support, as it sure sounds like he has little respect for you. Regain your independence.
This is the one. OP, don't strap yourself or a kid to someone who is cruel and unstable. If you have access to other options, I would suggest you take them.
Umm you should have broken up with her a long time ago.
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THIS!!! A 10000000%. You were sexually assaulted. More than once. Please let the other two women know. They DESERVE to know what those two disgusting , perverted rapists did. I am so sorry this has happened to you. I cannot even begin to imagine the pain and betrayal you feel now. Please speak to someone who specializes in counseling victims of SA. please know you have people who are thinking of you, whether it’s offering up a prayer for healing and support, or keeping a good thought for you and hoping you receive all the love and care and support and strength that you need.
The question I think is: in what way do you want your parents to be part of your life? Figure that out, and you know how to approach this. Sure, they can still be dismissive and rude, but that's their choice. You can only change your own approach and response, not their's. If you want them in your life, do this the nice way and try to involve them. If you don't, just treat them like extended family. Send me a card after birth and if they make a fuzz about not being involved, remind them of their earlier remarks and actions.
Don’t go