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Date: January 24, 2023
You need to fix whatever went wrong within yourself first. I don't believe you did this for “no reason other than to be a petulant child.” There were reasons, and until you identify them and work through them, what's to stop you from doing this again?
In order to be able to make this right, you need to be able to shoe your wife you got to the root of the issue and worked on it to make sure it won't happen again. Only after this point can she know she's safe from the same consequences as she faced last time you did this.
You also need to change your perspective from what you want to what your family need from you. You're still looking at this from a very selfish perspective. Which again makes me think you've not done the work yet.
Don't try to reconcile until you've done the work. Your wife deserves better than you trying to reconcile for selfish reasons that ignore the underlying problem.
How do I approach in an adult way to basically tell her to stop their “platonic” relationship?
You don’t get to tell her that. What you DO get to tell her is “this is becoming a dealbreaker for me; you can do what you want, I’m just giving you fair warning how I feel about it.”
The distinction is subtle but important. You can’t tell another adult what to do, but you CAN walk away from a relationship at any time.
You're not doing anything wrong. Your boyfriend is unlikely to change and is using his “insecurities” to behave in a controlling and abusive way.
Im just nervous to bring it up now seeing how everyone has called me very insecure or controlling
No, and honestly your update doesn't sound great either. It took him this long to notice? Did he even tell you why he was acting this way?