Based on your other comment, it does seem like he's looking for a place to stay. Since he's living with you now then ask him half the rent/expenses and see what his reaction is. If he says “yea sure”, then you can have a deeper conversation if you are moving in together or what. If he will avoid the topic/not pay, then he's probably using you. Right now you seem to be in a limbo, you have not discussed about anything. Also i would be a little bit concerned about the aged here. In my country, this would have been illegal. You're only 18 and you've been living together for 8 months and i'm assuming you've been together even longer. This would be considered statutory rape where i online.
Just don’t lie. If you didn’t you could’ve been through this faster and a long time ago.
Is she sure he’s 23, not 13?
360 is a circle so…?
Based on your other comment, it does seem like he's looking for a place to stay. Since he's living with you now then ask him half the rent/expenses and see what his reaction is. If he says “yea sure”, then you can have a deeper conversation if you are moving in together or what. If he will avoid the topic/not pay, then he's probably using you. Right now you seem to be in a limbo, you have not discussed about anything. Also i would be a little bit concerned about the aged here. In my country, this would have been illegal. You're only 18 and you've been living together for 8 months and i'm assuming you've been together even longer. This would be considered statutory rape where i online.
Thank you for sharing your story, that was really insightful… I am sorry you went through that.