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jules and dave, 58 y.o.
Location: Perth Western Australia
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Date: October 21, 2022
jules and dave, 58 y.o.
Location: Perth Western Australia
Room subject:
To Start live! video press there
“I'm sorry but I think it's best if we go separate ways and don't interact anymore. I wish you well. Please don't write me again”
…them block her
no i’ve been very clear about not wanting a relationship that’s why she tries bribing me to hang out it all seems like desperation. i know i’ll be okay but i’m just kind of scared she’s gonna end up homeless i payed for everything previously so she doesn’t really have money
Multiple responses I know ? but anyways
Try adding to your response to me somewhere in your post. Because honestly you made this sound like she's compromising everything and you're just refusing to budge like a stubborn mule.
OP can have whatever deal breakers he wants, including this. As an unrelated 3rd party I can still be like “yeah this dude's wrong in this situation” though.
He’s never been married but had was engaged but apparently she was physical towards him so he apparently left her. And no kids..says he’s always wanted to be a father.. he’s sweet but he’s trying to rush and he’s not respecting my boundaries. Also concerned that I can’t trust what he says because once he told me he doesn’t believe people are capable of being truthful. So idk it makes me think like what he thinks he can make up.. anyways he had it rough with his parents and so he moved out when he was 16or so and right now he lives in a trailer (he doesn’t let me over because it’s apparently a disaster) and he has 2cats that piss on everything and all this stuff always smells like cat piss and he’s so used to it I guess he doesn’t notice..apparently the smell was a deal breaker for his ex.. it is really bad and I’ve had him put things in plastic bags and tried killing the smell in the freezer, I try to have compassion and help but anyways I think I’m going to leave him because it’s all too much. Sorry for rambling, hope I answered all your questions
No shot in hell that even if she has a web of lies unless she’s a criminal it doesn’t matter. It’s not illegal to be manipulative sadly or a liar or a cheater none of that matters when it comes to custody and any lawyer would tell you that.
There can be various reasons for her behaviour (feeling inadequate to her ex's going to be wife, she still has feelings for her ex, jealousy, etc ) The only way to find out is talk, however you don't have to wait forever for that, set up a time for yourself and see if she's ready to talk within that time and if she starts talking, then is she behaving differently? Based on that you can decide the future course of action for your relationship.
You're dating her for only 8 months, you don't have to invest more time or your feelings aren't being reciprocated and if she's still hung on her ex.
Kind of a shit or get off the pot situation my guy.
You can be honest with her, might be the best opportunity to diversify your dating interests. It's difficult to want a relationship while someone else does not.
If he wanted to propose, he certainly would have after 10 years. Do not give him an ultimatum. You could sit him down and talk to him again and say look it's been 10 years, we're at the point where we can marry. Obviously, you don't want to so it's time to break up. If he freaks and begs, make sure you tell him you don't want him to marry you because he feels he has to, you want him to marry you because he wants to and he loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you. I don't think he's mature enough for marriage at this point if he's spending all his money on himself and saying (excuse) to you he doesn't have money to get married. well maybe if he stops spending every penny on flashy cars and whatever else he spends his money on then he could have enough money to get married but he doesn't want to get married that much is obvious. Time to move on.