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Julia Jane, 28 y.o.
Location: Antarctic Weather Research Station #68
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Date: October 16, 2022
Julia Jane, 28 y.o.
Location: Antarctic Weather Research Station #68
Room subject: still alive
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Exactly. What would she have done if she stayed? Sat and held his hand? Mopped his brow? Seems a bit selfish. Assuming she was back in a few hours. He could have even slept through it.
If you go forward get solid non religious premarital counseling aka not the in house counseling at a church or via a minister. Honestly I think you should have separate finances anyway until you are legally married. I have been doing personal finance for years and combining finances and making big purchases together pre marriage is a recipe for disaster. It’s like forming a business with someone without the partnership legal protection that protects you both. Money disagreements can destroy a marriage and in your case could prevent it from ever happening. Apologize, separate the finances, get counseling, and don’t get married until you have this figured out.
You did the right thing by suggesting therapy, OP. Unfortunately this isn't a problem you can solve for her. You can be there for her to listen when she explains her sadness and her grief, but ultimately, her depression is her responsibility to manage, and if she won't seek therapy, then the prospects aren't good.
You are not obligated to sacrifice your own well being because of her mental health issue. It's not her fault that she is depressed, but it is her responsibility. It is not your responsibility. Whether or not you want to continue the relationship is your choice. But I think you are perfectly reasonable to put down the boundary that you want her to bathe before you two get intimate.