Ewww seriously. Reading his comments on other posts I’m so grossed out. I honestly don’t even care that she cheated, I’m more concerned with your Reddit history over here. Tbh you probably deserved it. You’re gross OP.
You both want to be together. Supposedly. But. What’s with you playing martyr and saying there’s too much baggage? He doesn’t think so and you are the one that went elsewhere. Do you really want to stay with him? I think the too much baggage line is bs because he’s okay with it. To the boyfriend. She’s not your housekeeper. Do your share. Also create a life outside of this relationship. She can’t be your everything. This could work. I suggest couples therapy which can only help.
Hold on, she willingly went hard in front of another man. This is clearly not something you guys have discussed or you indicated that you would be okay with. Why do you care about making her feel bad? That “friend” is a scumbag and your wife is at best acting like an idiot.
Are you taking 2 cars or taking the bus to visit your home town? Was he offered a +1 on the invite? Do you know his friends? Well you be paying for your half of the travel and the wedding gift?
If it was mine, I'd probably try and talk to her first. See how things go…thats not something I can say for sure now. They won't be allowed to enter the country. I'd have to do immigration paperwork. Just because it's my child doesn't make it a US citizen. I'd do my best to make things as right as possible.
This is how it starts…
Ewww seriously. Reading his comments on other posts I’m so grossed out. I honestly don’t even care that she cheated, I’m more concerned with your Reddit history over here. Tbh you probably deserved it. You’re gross OP.
My opinion on this post was asked for. Your opinion of my opinion was not requested. For the record, I think you have a bad opinion, and I disagree.
If you want to police people who didn't ask for your input, I suggest you apply at your local police station.
You both want to be together. Supposedly. But. What’s with you playing martyr and saying there’s too much baggage? He doesn’t think so and you are the one that went elsewhere. Do you really want to stay with him? I think the too much baggage line is bs because he’s okay with it. To the boyfriend. She’s not your housekeeper. Do your share. Also create a life outside of this relationship. She can’t be your everything. This could work. I suggest couples therapy which can only help.
Hold on, she willingly went hard in front of another man. This is clearly not something you guys have discussed or you indicated that you would be okay with. Why do you care about making her feel bad? That “friend” is a scumbag and your wife is at best acting like an idiot.
Breaking up would be justified. You should tell her that her behavior while drinking is unreasonable and if she doesn’t go sober, you’re gone.
Are you taking 2 cars or taking the bus to visit your home town? Was he offered a +1 on the invite? Do you know his friends? Well you be paying for your half of the travel and the wedding gift?
So many questions.
If it was mine, I'd probably try and talk to her first. See how things go…thats not something I can say for sure now. They won't be allowed to enter the country. I'd have to do immigration paperwork. Just because it's my child doesn't make it a US citizen. I'd do my best to make things as right as possible.
Way over the top overreaction.