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OP, I lost my Dad when I was 20 years old. I would give anything to have him here with me. My husband loved my Dad. Ditch the boyfriend. I am a mom with ADD to 3 kids that I drive bonkers because of it so I feel even more for your dad.
Thank you so much for your words. It helped me see the situation(and potential hope) more clearly. I still am very much hurt because I love her, but I believe that our friendship is too valuable to just let go. I'll distance and work on myself and hopefully be able to once again hang out with her as a true friend.
Oh honey, he does know. He’s 47, he’s got plenty experience. There is no excuse to not know. It’s probably the reason why his ex didn’t want to have sex often. He knows, he just doesn’t seem to care.
If you don’t want to marry her then you need to let her go and find someone who does want to marry her.
I don’t wanna be mean, but your reasons for not breaking it off sound pretty selfish. And the longer you string her along, the more selfish it is.
It sounds like you’re comfortable with her financially supporting your dreams and ambitions while you accuse her of having none. Have you asked her about that? Maybe she does have dreams and ambitions. Also, some people have had tumultuous childhoods and dream of contentment and stability. That doesn’t mean they’re wrong and you’re right. Just means you’re not compatible.
End of the day, you need to sit her down and be honest about not seeing a long term future together so she can make up her own mind. Right now you’re giving her a false idea of where things are headed.
Instead of asking for advice and trying to ask him to stick to the original plan, why wouldn’t you just tell him no thanks and you’ll take an Uber. Problem solved.
She’s not been communicating with you for what a month, and wants a week more ‘to figure things out’
Tell her that while you care for her, how she is acting and behaving, especially with regards to communication is not healthy. So you are ending the relationship.
If YOU really want a relationship with her, tell her that if she can get her shit together in a week, then you will still be here for her, and you both can see if reestablishing the relationship is he right thing.
I read your edit and the sad part is. There is no better way to set “your boundary”. Which understandable isn’t really a boundary, it’s a rule. He is free to sleep in the same bed with his friend if he wants and you then get to decide what YOU will do in that case.
Now is the time to have the consequences of that boundary or rule. If you don’t then the boundary becomes useless. There is no boundary-police that will show up. You said: I don’t want you to sleep in the same bed. They did. Now what? You can’t control him, you can only control you.
The only advice I could give you is to leave. You got an early glimpse of how your GF reacts (immaturely) when important things do not go her way. The most important thing in a couple is dialogue and communication, and regardless of her condition, what she did is not something you can base a solid relationship on.
IF you are inclined to stick with her and make things work, I think (not sure you can financially do it) professional help would be best.
OP, I lost my Dad when I was 20 years old. I would give anything to have him here with me. My husband loved my Dad. Ditch the boyfriend. I am a mom with ADD to 3 kids that I drive bonkers because of it so I feel even more for your dad.
Of course he isn't being pushy.
He's giving his positive opinion.
You get to make your own decision: your body, your rules.
Thank you so much for your words. It helped me see the situation(and potential hope) more clearly. I still am very much hurt because I love her, but I believe that our friendship is too valuable to just let go. I'll distance and work on myself and hopefully be able to once again hang out with her as a true friend.
Oh honey, he does know. He’s 47, he’s got plenty experience. There is no excuse to not know. It’s probably the reason why his ex didn’t want to have sex often. He knows, he just doesn’t seem to care.
If I had a neon sign flashing the words sexual assault I’d hang it here.
If you don’t want to marry her then you need to let her go and find someone who does want to marry her.
I don’t wanna be mean, but your reasons for not breaking it off sound pretty selfish. And the longer you string her along, the more selfish it is.
It sounds like you’re comfortable with her financially supporting your dreams and ambitions while you accuse her of having none. Have you asked her about that? Maybe she does have dreams and ambitions. Also, some people have had tumultuous childhoods and dream of contentment and stability. That doesn’t mean they’re wrong and you’re right. Just means you’re not compatible.
End of the day, you need to sit her down and be honest about not seeing a long term future together so she can make up her own mind. Right now you’re giving her a false idea of where things are headed.
Instead of asking for advice and trying to ask him to stick to the original plan, why wouldn’t you just tell him no thanks and you’ll take an Uber. Problem solved.
No.
You end the relationship.
She’s not been communicating with you for what a month, and wants a week more ‘to figure things out’
Tell her that while you care for her, how she is acting and behaving, especially with regards to communication is not healthy. So you are ending the relationship.
If YOU really want a relationship with her, tell her that if she can get her shit together in a week, then you will still be here for her, and you both can see if reestablishing the relationship is he right thing.
Threatening to kill your family is just the beginning the abuse and control. Leave him, cancel the wedding, and get a protective order.
I read your edit and the sad part is. There is no better way to set “your boundary”. Which understandable isn’t really a boundary, it’s a rule. He is free to sleep in the same bed with his friend if he wants and you then get to decide what YOU will do in that case.
Now is the time to have the consequences of that boundary or rule. If you don’t then the boundary becomes useless. There is no boundary-police that will show up. You said: I don’t want you to sleep in the same bed. They did. Now what? You can’t control him, you can only control you.
Just message him that you care more about him than about some sheets and go from there?
You're dating a child. I myself like natural boobs but if I couldn't tell the difference I'd shut up and be happy I was getting laid.
The only advice I could give you is to leave. You got an early glimpse of how your GF reacts (immaturely) when important things do not go her way. The most important thing in a couple is dialogue and communication, and regardless of her condition, what she did is not something you can base a solid relationship on.
IF you are inclined to stick with her and make things work, I think (not sure you can financially do it) professional help would be best.
I wish you luck.
We both ignored it basicly . We are both doctors and have a lot on our plate since we recently ( 1 year) started to work