I did kiss him and it was very passionate but I am not that type who takes the initiative first. And He was inviting me very spontaneous in the recent time, and especially at night. That doesn’t sound like he wants to spend a quality time with me or respect me
He’s not partner material. I mean, he’s not even fuckboi material.
There are people out there who get that being in a relationship means sometimes prioritizing things you don’t care about because it builds the bond between you and your partner.
This is naked OP. Your son is probably in shock. His reality and the narrative of his life has been changed and he probably feels truly awful and guilty for things he said to his dad based on the “mom is good” and “dad is bad” assumption for all those years.
You having a good/amicable relationship with your ex husband is key because you need his help. Think this is something you should work though together with your son as his parents and not by yourself. The decisions you and your ex-husband made back in the day were made in good faith and from the perspective of his best interest regardless of what hindsight looks like now. Your son needs to understand this and I think he will — but needs time to process everything.
You are going to get a lot of negativity on here — but remember the reason you have a good relationship with your ex-husband is because you showed empathy and respect by coming forward with your affair and providing him with the freedom to get out of the marriage and pursue happiness.
When I was pregnant, I wore loafers, leather slip on shoes that were very comfortable. The only shoes I had that tied were sneakers and I only wear them to mow the lawn or exercise. I would buy shoes that don't need to be tied because he isn't going to be available every time you need to put shoes on. When he is home he should help. It only takes a minute.
In what way, what did she get out of being a martyr
This is the wrong sub, but ask if he has an art room for Kevin.
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It means he has a thesaurus and plans to get his money's worth.
I did kiss him and it was very passionate but I am not that type who takes the initiative first. And He was inviting me very spontaneous in the recent time, and especially at night. That doesn’t sound like he wants to spend a quality time with me or respect me
He’s not partner material. I mean, he’s not even fuckboi material.
There are people out there who get that being in a relationship means sometimes prioritizing things you don’t care about because it builds the bond between you and your partner.
Go meet some of them.
This is naked OP. Your son is probably in shock. His reality and the narrative of his life has been changed and he probably feels truly awful and guilty for things he said to his dad based on the “mom is good” and “dad is bad” assumption for all those years.
You having a good/amicable relationship with your ex husband is key because you need his help. Think this is something you should work though together with your son as his parents and not by yourself. The decisions you and your ex-husband made back in the day were made in good faith and from the perspective of his best interest regardless of what hindsight looks like now. Your son needs to understand this and I think he will — but needs time to process everything.
You are going to get a lot of negativity on here — but remember the reason you have a good relationship with your ex-husband is because you showed empathy and respect by coming forward with your affair and providing him with the freedom to get out of the marriage and pursue happiness.
When I was pregnant, I wore loafers, leather slip on shoes that were very comfortable. The only shoes I had that tied were sneakers and I only wear them to mow the lawn or exercise. I would buy shoes that don't need to be tied because he isn't going to be available every time you need to put shoes on. When he is home he should help. It only takes a minute.