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A beautiful night to have a good time and get to know each other a little better . Welcome to my room! #blonde #bigboobs #bigass #feet #latina
Date: October 28, 2022
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I would have to ask him on Facebook. I just thought we had a great connection and of course, women tend to have more feelings after sex so I do like him more than just a friend. I never told him that, though but I'm hoping it's a big misunderstanding
You can try r/survivinginfidelity if you want. They say it takes a couple years for a couple to start healing from infidelity… but not sure how long it takes to heal from being accused while your partner goes and sleeps with other people before the divorce is even finalized.
Seriously. How weird that his girlfriend is openly crying at this “relaxing romantic getaway” and his only thought is “meh, might as well enjoy it anyway.” Like who was this spa date for? Does she even LIKE the spa?
You started dating him 3 months ago…3 months and already so much drama…you should really leave him
Well you sure wrote a lot without saying much.
Out of pure curiosity, what did your soon to be wife say that was that bad that after years even strangers keep considering her the biggest asshole in the whole planet?
By the way. You need to drop your groomsman’s ass. Homeboy was hosting a party after one of your pre-wedding events to spite your wife? And no, it’s not just Sarah. It’s him. Or are we going to treat him like a toddler with no agency?
From a wife in a 15 years relationship, with 2 kids, who’s had the envies of cheating…. But who hasn’t done it.
I don’t know your wife and her values. But whatever the scenario is, here is what I would do.
Before you make up a hole story in your head with « maybes and what if’s », and torture yourself with hypnosis, you need to sit down with her and ask her what is the current situation. Does she have STD, if so where did she got it, if no what are the meds for?
She may not give you the true story first; because of shame, because of … I don’t know… fear of repercussions.
But it’s ok, you’re strong, you can wait for the true that always eventually comes.
What ever comes out from this 1 st conversation, you need to stay cool. Even if what she says hurt you, even if you feel like divorcing her right on the very moment, take the infos but don’t act on it yet.
Talk to someone. A neutral person. Not a friend, not a stranger on Reddit, not a lawyer. A counselor, a shrink maybe. This is so you can vent and have a clear view of the situation.
Then set up a second meeting with her but only once you’ve overcome the initial feelings brought by the first meeting.
Ask her the reason why she cheated. Her answer will lead you to what you wish to do after.
Is it a old lover…? Is it because she needs something she can’t find in the relationship…? Was it because she needed reassurance that she’ll still desirable…?
You find out the reason(s) and you decide if you understand and forgive and work on the roots of the problem with her.
But do know the the hurt, the doubt in her will be in your history for ever. Us human are built like that. It’s a survival reflex I guess. The berry that made you sick will always be suspicious to you.
Never forget how you feel, but never let the emotions lead your actions.
Good luck stranger of the Reddit world. Reading your pain does make me think about the fact that I do not want, ever ever, hurt my husband even if things are not that great between us like they used to be.
Honestly , you look him in the eye , you then grab his genitalia gently I might add and tell him these words “ you are perfect ! You have more than I need and I want no one else but you “ so please stop worrying . I am very happy to have you in my life and I don’t want anyone else !”
That should do it .