Well you win the “look who’s paying full attention” award. I read it as: his life insurance was for the ex and the baby. Which makes no sense now that you were kind enough to break it down for me! I was thinking: why would he omit the daughter as a life insurance beneficiary?
Multiple choice tests are so fricking difficult bc of the unnecessary overthinking!
You’re right. I won’t know until it happens and it might not even happen. Right now I know he is committed and that is what matters. Thank you for your response
Yeah I agree, the problem is we disagree about if he’s dealing with them appropriately. He continues to be nice and say that it doesn’t matter what they do since he knows his intentions. But on the other hand I feel very uneasy that it gives them fuel to continue flirting and basically disrespect the relationship we have.
Relax! She might have had problems falling asleep. I only managed to fall asleep after 5AM this morning, and it's just eight hours ago. I would have still slept hadn't my dog woken me up three hours ago.
Or maybe she's ghosting you. Or her phone died during the night, so nothing woke her up this morning, and she really needs some extra sleep.
Or any number of reasons! If it continues until tomorrow, THEN you can start wondering about her ghosting you. Relax, and don't over-analyze.
The separate bedrooms things is because of his snoring. It is so loud that you can hear it in the living room from his bedroom. He used to feel really bad about it in the beginning and i tried many times to make it work but it didn’t and i had to get the separate room. But at this point i feel like he’s taking advantage of that situation to do these things. At this point i don’t trust him overall because idk he might also be talking to someone else when i am not in the room. Who knows? I am so angry right now and i didn’t know whether i should talk to him about how this made me feel or not?
Four months in we were arguing and disagreeing on fundamentals for long term relationships (religion, politics, marriage, children, etc).
I get how you have the feeling of her being perfect. I get that she is treating you well. But if your heart is not in it and you fell trapped and like you want to get out, it will be more hurtful for the both of you if you go on with this relationship. You very well might end up despising her in the long run for upholding the relationship in favor of not wanting to hurt her.
Breakups are not always about one partner being awful. Sometimes both partners are treating each other well but they're just not meant to be together. It hurts, it sucks, but it's just the way it is.
I am so sorry that you are in this kind of predicament and I hope you find your way through this
He’s both not changed and he doesn’t care about you. He only cares enough to mildly keep you.
He’s 33, living like an early 20 something. You need to get more selective. This was a poor choice when you got back together, instead of finding fresh and better.
What?! I’d love to find out exactly what you’re smoking that equates to 5-6 shots of vodka lmao.
Well you win the “look who’s paying full attention” award. I read it as: his life insurance was for the ex and the baby. Which makes no sense now that you were kind enough to break it down for me! I was thinking: why would he omit the daughter as a life insurance beneficiary?
Multiple choice tests are so fricking difficult bc of the unnecessary overthinking!
You’re right. I won’t know until it happens and it might not even happen. Right now I know he is committed and that is what matters. Thank you for your response
Yeah I agree, the problem is we disagree about if he’s dealing with them appropriately. He continues to be nice and say that it doesn’t matter what they do since he knows his intentions. But on the other hand I feel very uneasy that it gives them fuel to continue flirting and basically disrespect the relationship we have.
Why is she invited to his bday? Also – you should try to be more concise. Ain't no one got time to read this novel
Relax! She might have had problems falling asleep. I only managed to fall asleep after 5AM this morning, and it's just eight hours ago. I would have still slept hadn't my dog woken me up three hours ago.
Or maybe she's ghosting you. Or her phone died during the night, so nothing woke her up this morning, and she really needs some extra sleep.
Or any number of reasons! If it continues until tomorrow, THEN you can start wondering about her ghosting you. Relax, and don't over-analyze.
The separate bedrooms things is because of his snoring. It is so loud that you can hear it in the living room from his bedroom. He used to feel really bad about it in the beginning and i tried many times to make it work but it didn’t and i had to get the separate room. But at this point i feel like he’s taking advantage of that situation to do these things. At this point i don’t trust him overall because idk he might also be talking to someone else when i am not in the room. Who knows? I am so angry right now and i didn’t know whether i should talk to him about how this made me feel or not?
Four months in we were arguing and disagreeing on fundamentals for long term relationships (religion, politics, marriage, children, etc).
I get how you have the feeling of her being perfect. I get that she is treating you well. But if your heart is not in it and you fell trapped and like you want to get out, it will be more hurtful for the both of you if you go on with this relationship. You very well might end up despising her in the long run for upholding the relationship in favor of not wanting to hurt her.
Breakups are not always about one partner being awful. Sometimes both partners are treating each other well but they're just not meant to be together. It hurts, it sucks, but it's just the way it is.
I am so sorry that you are in this kind of predicament and I hope you find your way through this
Who ask for a divorce?
So he was bingo drunk again as well.
He’s both not changed and he doesn’t care about you. He only cares enough to mildly keep you.
He’s 33, living like an early 20 something. You need to get more selective. This was a poor choice when you got back together, instead of finding fresh and better.
Run. Run my dude. Why haven't you yet