Well if my girl just laid out her gift list to me I’d just grab something from there. Not sure why he is being mean about it, seems like you’re not asking for a lot of effort. I’ve known a lot of women who want you to jump through 10 hoops to satisfy their demands, this is getting off easy.
If he doesn’t want to compromise what are you supposed to do? Sounds like just a bad spot to be in, my condolences.
I have heard of couples leaving each other signals when they’re in the mood. Lighting a certain candle or maybe turning a certain fridge magnet upside down or something. So one person can communicate indirectly that they’re horny and the other can decide if they feel like initiating.
First of all, you have a right to your feelings, whatever they are. So asking “do I have a right to feel…..” is misunderstanding emotions.
She has no obligation to tell you who she's dating, or to answer with a lie if you ask her point blank. You aren't respecting her boundaries by being this interested in her love life.
Just because you confessed feelings (and she said she did not return them) does not give you any claim on her other relationships. It's not like she “should” know her dating this guy would hurt you.
So you have a right to your feelings, and she has a right to her privacy. Nobody's in the wrong here, but you need to mind your own business and get yourself an actual GF so you won't care so much about this co-worker.
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Well if my girl just laid out her gift list to me I’d just grab something from there. Not sure why he is being mean about it, seems like you’re not asking for a lot of effort. I’ve known a lot of women who want you to jump through 10 hoops to satisfy their demands, this is getting off easy.
If he doesn’t want to compromise what are you supposed to do? Sounds like just a bad spot to be in, my condolences.
I have heard of couples leaving each other signals when they’re in the mood. Lighting a certain candle or maybe turning a certain fridge magnet upside down or something. So one person can communicate indirectly that they’re horny and the other can decide if they feel like initiating.
Yeah, there's a lot of missing info here on who is paying what
What do you mean by you get bratty when you do things?
First of all, you have a right to your feelings, whatever they are. So asking “do I have a right to feel…..” is misunderstanding emotions.
She has no obligation to tell you who she's dating, or to answer with a lie if you ask her point blank. You aren't respecting her boundaries by being this interested in her love life.
Just because you confessed feelings (and she said she did not return them) does not give you any claim on her other relationships. It's not like she “should” know her dating this guy would hurt you.
So you have a right to your feelings, and she has a right to her privacy. Nobody's in the wrong here, but you need to mind your own business and get yourself an actual GF so you won't care so much about this co-worker.
That was funny ?
It sounds like OP is the scapegoat and sister is the golden child. It never seems to work out well for the golden child.
Sounds like ex is a narcissist, and was in the stage of love bombing OP, when he slept with sister.
Lol yea… People always cry and have weird one sided pillow talk after “buying art supplies”.
Why are you dating someone who actively hates the things you care about?
I mean, I have ADHD too, but I don't think it's gives us like .. a radar to pick it up, cause I do the exact same thing and it's ADHD related.