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Date: October 4, 2022
Your girlfriend isn't in good working order and this kind of behavior only gets worse. It reeks of bad boundaries, controlling behavior and alcoholism.
Ok so you know that you are not a priority. You are a consolation prize. Question is, what are you gonna do now? Are you going to stay with him?
She’s probably getting banged by someone in the army bro. I have multiple friends who are enlisted and let me tell you they sleep around like crazy. Best to lick your wounds and move on
Wtf am i reading? Good luck with the whole doormat thing.
Yep. 15 years is a long time. My guess is the kiss is the excuse. He has wanted to break up and a couple of second kiss gave him the out.
Aw OP. I really feel for you.
Can I ask how and why your relationship ended? What happened?
Why do you think you cannot be your best self without a partner?
I do not think it is badly out of line to ask if you can have a chat just to have some closure, you could say something like- ” Hey, I am sorry to message out of the blue, but I was hoping we could just have a quick conversation. I am struggling with my mental health and would really appreciate if we could talk so I could have some closure about our relationship ending”
Is it bad that you’re scared of and for her? No. It’s normal to look at an unnecessary risk taker that’s doing things against their best interests and have a reaction. She’s burning everything around her relatively quickly and creating a lot of documentation for her exit interview. She might try to take other people down with her- hence, space, boundaries, put on your customer service persona when you have to work with her.
It’s not out of bounds when someone tells you they’re going to do something shitty to ask for their thought process behind it, her angry call to you was literally “how dare you make me think!” Ummm what? Lol. You didn’t tell her to do something against her best interests, you’ve got nothing to regret or feel bad about- don’t own her mistakes.
Ask some non work friends out for a drink and laugh this off. It’ll be funny in hindsight, maybe hilarious if you’re doing it right. It’s not a you problem.
Why is he “my boyfriend” but the other girl is “some bitch”?
The only bitch here is your weak ass man, be mad at him, as you’re the one turning a blind eye and passive-aggressively coming at him.
He’s the one you decided to cheat on you, not some bitch”.
Redirect that anger. I get that you’re upset, I’ve been cheated in too, but you sound fucking stupid being more mad at her that his lame ass.
Revenge? Payback? Forgiving?
Lol y’all are both petty and immature and shouldn’t be in a relationship.
You think cheating will “show him how it feels?” Bold of you to think he cares. If he did, he wouldn’t have piped this other woman.
Leave. Be a fucking adult.
It screams of codependency to me. I've had friends like OP. She's not stupid. She's presenting herself as a victim to manipulate this guy. She doesn't want to go back to dating, she just wants to settle down with someone. The ideal solution in her mind is to find someway to get him to change his behaviour.
Ok if this isnt a shitpost, leave, like right now, you are becomin an adult more and more you have to see it.
I use ear plugs. Get you some overnight ear plugs.
You should’ve been there with her in the first place so you’re patting yourself on the back that you didn’t shit really is soda hollow to me. I think your girlfriend would’ve been hurt by the whole thing. So next time now you know you can go out with girls anytime you want as long as you don’t sleep with them. It’s not a great discovery you’re such a good boyfriend.
I don't think it's racist for you, as a black man, to want to date mostly other black women and Asians. If you were white, like your friend, I wouldn't immediately say racist, but I would be more suspicious.
It's very common for people of all races, religions, and cultures to prefer dating within their own group. There are certainly some biases involved, but I generally think that's normal and okay.
If you have to justify your actions, you're wrong.
If you genuinely believed you made the right choice you'd shrug and let them move on. If you had a strong suspicion that your behaviour was shitty but didn't have the courage to acknowledge it you'd, I don't know, write a million words to a sub full of people who are all to happy to support people who are as shitty as they are.
How can you say you can’t afford to travel more but you want another kid