You need to make it clear to her that you aren't ready for that discussion yet. It's been four months. I've got leftovers in the very back of my fridge that have been there longer than that.
She's probably seeing all of her friends getting engaged/married and is feeling all spinster-y. There's a thing called a quarter-life crisis that some people go through, and some people struggle with how slow they feel like their adult life is moving forward. Tell her you like her a lot and think there will be a future together, but you can't promise stuff like that right now. You're still in the infatuation stage of the relationship. This isn't love yet. You don't truly know each other well enough to determine if you're going to get married and live! happily ever after.
On the other hand, if she's this eager to get married to someone she barely knows, it's a bit of a red flag. Does she want to get married to you, or does she just want to get married?
Start out with a part time job and when you get your confidence back to can seek full time employment or get a second part time job. You can look online. You can also meet people at place of work that won't be friends of your girlfriend. You need to start getting out into the work force for many many reasons and those reasons are to benefit you. If you were to break up with her you will have stability and money and potential friends. It's a win win situation. If you are in the United States and need help with finding a job I can help you with the internet listing.
Do you even understand what it means to be sexually abused/assaulted? You're 19, you have known her for barely 6 months and the way you guys function is to text every 30/45 minutes? To never leave the other person on read? What the fuck is wrong with you?
If you loved her or liked her enough, you wouldn't talk this much about the lying right now. You don't have to forgive her right away, she absolutely broke your trust. But right now you need to help her and see if she is okay, what you can do to help her, etc and if you're still mad, you leave her be to manage things, not text her constantly like an insecure child seeking attention.
Of course not, he’s got the penis in the relationship.
You need to make it clear to her that you aren't ready for that discussion yet. It's been four months. I've got leftovers in the very back of my fridge that have been there longer than that.
She's probably seeing all of her friends getting engaged/married and is feeling all spinster-y. There's a thing called a quarter-life crisis that some people go through, and some people struggle with how slow they feel like their adult life is moving forward. Tell her you like her a lot and think there will be a future together, but you can't promise stuff like that right now. You're still in the infatuation stage of the relationship. This isn't love yet. You don't truly know each other well enough to determine if you're going to get married and live! happily ever after.
On the other hand, if she's this eager to get married to someone she barely knows, it's a bit of a red flag. Does she want to get married to you, or does she just want to get married?
Start out with a part time job and when you get your confidence back to can seek full time employment or get a second part time job. You can look online. You can also meet people at place of work that won't be friends of your girlfriend. You need to start getting out into the work force for many many reasons and those reasons are to benefit you. If you were to break up with her you will have stability and money and potential friends. It's a win win situation. If you are in the United States and need help with finding a job I can help you with the internet listing.
Do you even understand what it means to be sexually abused/assaulted? You're 19, you have known her for barely 6 months and the way you guys function is to text every 30/45 minutes? To never leave the other person on read? What the fuck is wrong with you?
If you loved her or liked her enough, you wouldn't talk this much about the lying right now. You don't have to forgive her right away, she absolutely broke your trust. But right now you need to help her and see if she is okay, what you can do to help her, etc and if you're still mad, you leave her be to manage things, not text her constantly like an insecure child seeking attention.
Man y'all both suck.
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Good luck to you