0 views
kami-fuenmayor-ts Public Chat Channel
Date: October 20, 2022
![](/cs/camsoda2500.jpg")
PussyCharms
Promo Code
200_FREE_TOKEN_SPRING_SURPRISE
im sad and i have a pretty good body, nothing crazy but its better then what it was before.
While I do think it's true that most men look at porn, what really matters is just he responds to you about it.
It might be worth a discussion on boundaries and expectations. I personally don't think reddit porn is any different to any other website, since you can also pick specific categories on those sites the same way your husband has seemingly picked “Curvy Latinas” as his category. Most people would probably draw the line at subscriptions or chatting because that's probably a bit too personal. But it should be a discussion between you and him. If reddit threats is past the line then that's something he should respect. A discussion will also help to air out the reasons why he seeks out those specific things, which will undoubtedly be awkward, but might help alleviate some of your concerns? A lot of men are into things on-line that they aren't actually interested in irl.
You may want to google what a covert narcissist is….it's harder to see.
Holy Jesus people, quit crucifying the new BF for Pete’s sake… he was f*%king nervous!
For all of the people doing that, have you ever said something as a joke when incredibly nervous or scared (poorly worded/inappropriate etc.) and then dying a little inside as a result?
I doubt any of you will answer truthfully if you decide to answer at all because you know you’re guilty of it.
Sure, I agree perhaps the nervous jitters made OPs BF speak without thinking as much as it was inappropriate of a joke. I don’t think it is the absolute worst thing a person could have said or done in the presence of meeting the parents.
OP, my best advice is to maybe talk to your parents about the awkwardness. First ask them why there is this awkwardness because it’s making you feel like they are unsupportive of your sexuality and it’s messing with you. Perhaps they will reaffirm their support, and tell you exactly what the change is about. Maybe, they will tell you the joke did put them off as it’s understandable.
Maybe there’s reason as to why your BF was extra nervous (was he unsupported by his family, did his family disown him etc.) or was he super scared knowing he was the first BF ever introduced to your parents? Either way, this isn’t the end of all things. People make mistakes, your parents and BF are no exception in that.
Give it some time and I’m sure your parents would appreciate a more PG do-over at some point in future.
This right here. Her shutting down is a trauma response. Chances are she was abused as well. OP said chomo played up a mother/son role to get sympathy.
There is no competition here, he is grieving and processing her death
yes, very much. And remember, we don't speak ill of the dead, so of course she sounds like she must have been a wonderful person. But there's a good reason she was his ex, and there's a good reason why you're his current.
A friend of ours died, leaving three young children behind. It was a very messy death, involving too much alcohol, and behaving badly as a result of that. We all rallied round his widow and came up with an account of his death that didn't reflect badly on him and that wouldn't hurt his children (he had made suicide attempts previously and there was a chance that he was hoping to die while indulging in the stupid behaviour that caused his death – we didn't want the children thinking he killed himself because children often think it was their fault). We have never spoken ill of him in any way.
The upshot of that is that his eldest son hero-worships him. He's got himself a tattoo that is like a shrine to his father. He disapproves of his mother, and seems to believe that his father was perfect. I sometimes feel an urge to set him straight and explain that no, his father was a wastrel and died as a result of extreme stupidity, but I never will. It's not like his father is actually going to disappoint him now.
Honestly, this isn’t giving me enough context imo. I think that you need to ask her if she’s doing okay and what her expectations are for you both. Communicate with her. “Hey (name), I’ve noticed you’ve been a bit distant lately, are you doing okay?” and depending where that goes, then you can proceed to the “Hey, we’ve been around each other a lot and seem to get along. I just wanted to ask you about what your expectations and boundaries are in regards to us”
Threesomes are a shit idea, and every post on this sub about them is how they ruin relationships/marriages, and they aren't even that good.
If you want to play with fire I'm not gonna stop you, but I will call you an idiot when you get burned.
Well, fundamentally you can not have sex with her for any period of time, for any reason. She does not have a right to sex. Having said that, you are imposing your religion on her, by choosing a lent activity that effects her as much as you. You say, you two leave each other alone when it comes to religion and you have stopped doing that. You made a unilateral decision about her intimacy levels for the next weeks, based on your beliefs. You have essentially broken the agreement of “each onto their own”. That’s why she is angry.
Personally, I would say that you are being unreasonable, because you are choosing a lent activity that negatively impacts your girlfriend and your relationship without her say-so or consent. Intimacy is a big part of a relationship for many people. There are a million and one lent activities, that you could choose, which would effect her. You also say, that it won’t happen again after this, but those a bold words by someone who started off saying that you leave each other alone when it comes to religion and beliefs.
I don’t think you could have worded it better, beyond actually getting her opinion, rather than just making the decision about both of you.
I feel a long talk is in order. You two not being on the same page when it comes to faith, is going to keep creeping up as an issue and you both need to be aware of it. Having rules on where tolerance starts and ends, would be a great start for example.
But she didn't marry your ex she married you.
If she never bothered adjusting her way of spending and just expected you to act like her ex. Then I'm sorry to tell you, she only married you because you're a safe choice so she thinks she “settled”.
The only reason her exs behaviour is even important in your relationship. Is because it proves your wife knew she couldn't marry him, because there's a chance he'd split up with her. She probably had pressure about signing a prenup too.
6 months is not enough time to move on from a serious relationship.
All she does is lying again and again stop torturing yourself and choose yourself,be selfish like she was to destroy your marriage !
Contact a lawyer,Move on and bring your peace of life back.
Sure but on a cashier's wage? And even if that's true (because I know it does happen) payment plans exist, loans exist, credit cards exist, people generally find a way to pay for an attorney when a felony is on the line and especially when they know they aren't guilty. Leaving that aside, how out of reach is the 5k? Know it isn't a small sum of money when you're living paycheck to paycheck but is he picking up extra work? Cutting out extras? How much is he spending on cannabis? Also pretty worrisome that he's still smoking it while on probation, it stays in the system for a long long time. I guess if I were you I'd be looking at how hot he's trying to actually get out of this situation.