You need to get out now. Go stay with a friend or in a hotel. Don’t tell him, just do it. You are on exactly the situation where women, and their children, are killed. You are not safe.
Sure you need to tell the ex beforehand, but you are not responsible for her feelings. I have seen pregnant women all over recently. Does every pregnant woman need to apologize? Your ex cannot have kids. Blame god. Blame her genetics. But the blame is not on you. You do not need to buy her out unless she suggest it. You do not need to sell your interest. It sounds like you and the ex are on good terms. If your ex wants to experience motherhood that is her prerogative. It sounds like you and the ex have the means. If that is something she wants, then she has the opportunity. The age difference is being inflated. As long as your new partner does not care, then no one else should.
It sounds like he was being performative. I would expect my partner to take charge, sit everyone down and tell them there would be no rehearsal dinner until the dress was located. I'm sure it would have magically shown up if the entire family was pressured to find it.
You have been through a highly traumatic event and you're going to be emotional. That's expected.
You might try going back to square one with dating, and see if interest in intimacy returns.
It sounds like he's been making an effort. It'll be easier on your kids if the adults in their lives can work together for their benefit.
You need to get out now. Go stay with a friend or in a hotel. Don’t tell him, just do it. You are on exactly the situation where women, and their children, are killed. You are not safe.
Sure you need to tell the ex beforehand, but you are not responsible for her feelings. I have seen pregnant women all over recently. Does every pregnant woman need to apologize? Your ex cannot have kids. Blame god. Blame her genetics. But the blame is not on you. You do not need to buy her out unless she suggest it. You do not need to sell your interest. It sounds like you and the ex are on good terms. If your ex wants to experience motherhood that is her prerogative. It sounds like you and the ex have the means. If that is something she wants, then she has the opportunity. The age difference is being inflated. As long as your new partner does not care, then no one else should.
I did this about a year ago… and he just bought new clothes, door dashed food and let the house go to the point where I couldn’t stand it. ??♀️
It's mutual
It sounds like he was being performative. I would expect my partner to take charge, sit everyone down and tell them there would be no rehearsal dinner until the dress was located. I'm sure it would have magically shown up if the entire family was pressured to find it.
You have been through a highly traumatic event and you're going to be emotional. That's expected.