I think your gf is being a little insecure and if you want to fix things with her you'll need to get granular with her and ask her exactly what you said to this coworker that is bugging her.
Tbh just because you suffered from cjeating in your family doesn't necessarily guarantee you wont do it. And saying over and over that this is a platonic friendship doesn't help either – your gf was once your platonic friend, now you're dating. What I am saying is that things change. I'd also be a little worried if my partner was up late at night texting someone after I went to bed, because that's how most emotional affairs begin.
Has she done it to other female friends you have? Because if she doesn't have issues with that in general then these specific incidents are different. And what about your guy friends or making some new?
Right? I had 3 gynecologists and an endocrinologist tell me in my early 20s that I wouldn’t have kids. Stayed on birth control anyway. Still got pregnant lol have an almost 4 year old. Everyone with PCOS who says they can’t have kids ends up having a kid anyway ?
Hopefully in the morning she’ll have a clearer head to talk about this. But rest assured if she tries to call my daughter ungrateful, that’s not gonna fly.
It’s a pretty short timeline in your situation, but when I was doing long distance, it’d take me an evening or a few hours to relax back into my relationship when we were able to see each other. It was like we didn’t quite fit together for the first couple hours, I just felt a bit off, but usually after a few hours and certainly after the first night everything was back to as it should be.
Your partner has repeatedly said inappropriate and rude comments to her and you are acting like it’s news to you that she’s sick of his shit? Yeah, bs. He’s clearly inappropriate and judgmental. I’m also guessing most of his opinions have been given unsolicited.
Part of me wants to just brush it off, while another part wants to ask him to go get tested and even tho I trust him a lot
Honestly, I think you should have asked him to anyway. If you have an outbreak you should tell him so he knows to get tested or to make sure he is careful.
I will ask though: a lot of workers and parlours don't allow filming. Did they seem like hidden or obscured camera shots? My worry is that he got those videos filmed in questionable ways.
Still, there is no implication he will necessarily want to do it again, maybe it was a phase. You can have that conversation though, maybe get a sense of how much he idealises it and go from there.
This has gone beyond dislike, and the violence is damaging to your son.
If current H really is bullying to both you and your boy, that's emotional abuse (to both of you) and you should think about ending the relationship. On the other hand, you already know ex-H is abusive.
I can't say the altercation was either man's fault completely. They both have aggressive tendencies. Why do you end up in relationships with men like this?
You will get some good suggestions here. I suggest you consult with a child psychologist and make your son's well-being the deciding factor in what to do.
I think your gf is being a little insecure and if you want to fix things with her you'll need to get granular with her and ask her exactly what you said to this coworker that is bugging her.
Tbh just because you suffered from cjeating in your family doesn't necessarily guarantee you wont do it. And saying over and over that this is a platonic friendship doesn't help either – your gf was once your platonic friend, now you're dating. What I am saying is that things change. I'd also be a little worried if my partner was up late at night texting someone after I went to bed, because that's how most emotional affairs begin.
Has she done it to other female friends you have? Because if she doesn't have issues with that in general then these specific incidents are different. And what about your guy friends or making some new?
Is this for real,Jesus Christ what a creepy old guy trying to use 21 ur old girl…Run girl !!!
Right? I had 3 gynecologists and an endocrinologist tell me in my early 20s that I wouldn’t have kids. Stayed on birth control anyway. Still got pregnant lol have an almost 4 year old. Everyone with PCOS who says they can’t have kids ends up having a kid anyway ?
Hopefully in the morning she’ll have a clearer head to talk about this. But rest assured if she tries to call my daughter ungrateful, that’s not gonna fly.
Yeesh. Sorry. No one wants to hear this ?♀️
boyfriends come and go – your mental health is more important than a chump.
It’s a pretty short timeline in your situation, but when I was doing long distance, it’d take me an evening or a few hours to relax back into my relationship when we were able to see each other. It was like we didn’t quite fit together for the first couple hours, I just felt a bit off, but usually after a few hours and certainly after the first night everything was back to as it should be.
It wasn’t bad, it just was.
Yep. He's definitely trying to manipulate her and continue abusing her.
You don’t know what to do. Stop playing around and get serious, collect the evidence and dump her ass
You don’t know what to do. Stop playing around and get serious, collect the evidence and dump her ass
Girlllll. Bffr. Reread your post. MURDER???? Run.
Your partner has repeatedly said inappropriate and rude comments to her and you are acting like it’s news to you that she’s sick of his shit? Yeah, bs. He’s clearly inappropriate and judgmental. I’m also guessing most of his opinions have been given unsolicited.
Part of me wants to just brush it off, while another part wants to ask him to go get tested and even tho I trust him a lot
Honestly, I think you should have asked him to anyway. If you have an outbreak you should tell him so he knows to get tested or to make sure he is careful.
I will ask though: a lot of workers and parlours don't allow filming. Did they seem like hidden or obscured camera shots? My worry is that he got those videos filmed in questionable ways.
Still, there is no implication he will necessarily want to do it again, maybe it was a phase. You can have that conversation though, maybe get a sense of how much he idealises it and go from there.
Sounds correct
LOL. Feel free. Hope you like Real Housewives! I comment plenty on there.
Okay, those might be a tad bitchy, but to the cast.
You’re absolutely spot on there. He’s a controller.
This has gone beyond dislike, and the violence is damaging to your son.
If current H really is bullying to both you and your boy, that's emotional abuse (to both of you) and you should think about ending the relationship. On the other hand, you already know ex-H is abusive.
I can't say the altercation was either man's fault completely. They both have aggressive tendencies. Why do you end up in relationships with men like this?
You will get some good suggestions here. I suggest you consult with a child psychologist and make your son's well-being the deciding factor in what to do.