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Date: October 10, 2022
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What could I have done to stop this?
Not a thing. He did all of this. What you can do is change whatever situation is forcing you to see him every day. If that's at work, find a new job. If that's in some other situation, change it. Go no contact with him and move on with your life, he obviously has hit a major crisis point in his life and is no longer the person you thought you knew.
I think I'd be totally pissed if my wife fucked off on holiday 8 weeks a year without me, taking my kid (although after having 2 it does have some positives lol)
The problem is It would not be long before I started to feel that she didnt want to be around me when I had any free time, I'd feel like a means to an end
You'd probably get told “Pick a family or I will do it for you”
Anything more than one trip would be too much for me
Sometimes I see these posts in here of “I found out X today about my partner and now I’m feeling really awkward/uncomfortable about it” and I just want to say that I’ve had that type of thing happen to me in a few relationships, and after sitting with it for a few weeks I was totally over it. You’re feeling odd about it now, but probably in a few days or a week, you’re going to start enjoying time with her again, remember what you like about her so much, and realize that what happened before you met hasn’t really mattered to your current relationship and the good experiences you’ve had so far. Everyone has done things good and bad, it’s up to you to decide how much this weighs against how much you’ve seemingly enjoyed the relationship so far, but if I were you I’d do my best to power through it for a week at least and then reevaluate feelings at that point.
I dont know… it just leaves me so confused. Because I get what you're saying, but i don't split my time between them to have to prioritize. If I'm being honest, I spend a lot of time with my gf and very little time with my bestie. Like I could see the logic if I was turning down my gf to chill with her… or canceling plans with my gf to chill with her… but that's never happened. But I get what you're saying, it's just a shit space to be in. Thanks for your insight ??
Boyfriend failed the is he batshit insane test. Leave
Sounds like all the things he is buying you with are very impressive. Go for it lol
And this ladies and gentlemen is why, if you don't shoot your shot you have 20 years of regret and pining.
You've also been mentally unfaithful to Lars for 19 years.
Ah yes insult my intelligence. So kind of you
I'm not going to entertain that question. I think that nasty predator here takes the blame. But at this point she is an adult as well.
For the sake of your child, please fully cut contact. Adults are more capable of accepting people coming into and out of our lives. Your 10 yo shouldn’t be subjected to that.
You do not need to, and should not, participate in your exes birthday. He’s clearly walked away at this point, until he tries to yank you back into his life. Please stop being his doormat.
You are clearly more motivated and focused than your ex. He’s almost 30 but lives and acts as if he’s still in the frat house. Please block him on everything. Take time to be with your kiddo. When you’re ready to reenter the dating world, do so slowly and don’t introduce a partner to your daughter for quite some time.
Don't tell him. If you are sure you want to terminate (which is 100% your choice) he can't change it, and shouldn't
Both of us didn't know how to manage each other's disagreement at first, since we both are very headstrong. It took both of us a while… but now, at least we know each other's personalities and how to handle/sacrifice for each other. Regarding me being angry and question about is she afraid of me. No, I'm actually the calmer one and I don't flip out right away, I always try to talk in calming voice, even if I strongly disagree with her. For this incident also, I started calm and she kept on hiding about this guy, that's why I flipped out. She is definitely not afraid of me, she is type of person that gets heat up first and so fast whenever there is a disagreement. It feels like she only way her to win the argument is by raising her voice, and I'm the one who actually get afraid of her.
You're too young to be settling for this shit. Find yourself someone who actually respects you enough to be honest.
As someone with a father who is just like this. The more you do, the more he will take advantage of.
He won't ever change, if you have kids, he'll try to get the kids to do his share.
Yes.
My wife plays sports with her friends and she's the only woman in their group. They play a number of sports casually but their biggest one is basketball.
His marriage being on the line doesn't make it an addiction. It just means she needs to learn how to mind her own damn business about how people spend their free time.
It’s not his best friend. They have a “meaningful relationship”. The invite came pretty close to thr wedding and he didn’t even rsvp. And still Hasn’t. There’s no issue with going separate other than he gave his gf thr impression he would go with Her and she’s angry. If she wasn’t angry there would be zero issue.
It takes a lot of work, just as any healthy relationship. Start doing new things, or surprise eachother randomly. As in going out and/or in the bedroom. But most importantly, keep talking.
He's not being reasonable and you are. Earning the same wage living 12 hours away would put you in the same situation you are now in if not worse. Stay where you are. Finish school. You have support from family. Don't lose all of that because of a man. If he wants to go then he knows where the door is.
I am sorry but this woman does not sound, at all healthy. She has you too scared to be honest about a trip you took long before you were together. She is essentially punishing YOU for other peoples past transgressions and making you crawl on your thumbs to right the wrongs other people did to her. This is no way to on-line. The best thing you can do, is stop allowing yourself to be punished for the acts of others and allowing her to weaponize her past dysfunctional family issues in order to tie you to a whipping post. The best thing you can do for both of you is end the relationship as much as you think it may hurt. As long as she has you around to enable her and allow yourself to be her punching bag, she doesn’t stand a chance to get the professional help she needs, and you get to online in misery being punished for other peoples bad behavior. I would tell her you care about her, but this relationship is not working out as she punishes you for what others did, and you are not going to live like that anymore. I would tell her she needs professional to worth through her trauma and misgivings before entering a relationship with anyone and that you truly hope she gets it so someday she can be happy.
Ha, yeah sad to say. And I work and pay all the bills….he doesn’t. So being tired could never be an excuse.
What is your fiancée’s planned profession? Will she eventually be making good money or will her profession generate significantly less income than you ( excluding your rentals)? Are you intending this house to be your marital home? Why is your fiancée asking for 50% ownership? If you get a prenup it will likely include her getting either cash (alimony) or equity in the house in the event of divorce.
Using myself as an example, I own the home my wife and I live in outright. I intend to always keep this house and in the event of a divorce my prenup offers my wife alimony for a period of time in lieu of ownership of the house. Unless we buy another property in which case she’ll be entitled to half the equity in the property we (I) online in in the future. I would expect a prenup for you to look similar. Since you own multiple properties it’s unlikely that you can get married with a prenup that doesn’t allot here something in the event of a divorce.
I think you should probably sit down with your fiancée and go over your expected finances both currently and in the future to find an equitable division.
That said, in my state ( and most states I believe) if you add someone to the deed for your property then in the event that something happens to you the property can pass to your spouse/partner without going through probate. It seems like that’s a good starting point for everyone’s expectations.
If you intend to marry this person then you’ll need to start thinking in term of us, rather than me, when it comes to finances in the future.
I’m also a bit unclear of the financials for buying this property. Are you parents giving you the down payment out of your inheritance, which you will pay them back for, while you are also paying the mortgage for the remainder, so in effect you are paying two loans at the same time? That seems especially complicated. I think the better option is your parents give you part of your inheritance early to cover the down payment and you cover the mortgage that remains. Then in the event that you sell this property in the future you replenish your inheritance fund from that and keep the remaining equity yourself. Alternatively, you and your wife are both on the mortgage, and you split the mortgage payment and then you pay your inheritance loan back yourself at the same time. I think the best way to approach this is splitting the mortgage with your fiancée while you cover the inheritance repayment on your own since that is intended to be your money ( and not your stbwifes). That way she can’t use the approach of you’re being given the money as an excuse to discount it.
There's a difference between someone begging to stay (most people who broke up) and her shitting and pissing herself and threatening to kill herself if we break up