I think that’s overkill, but would be a nice surprise after a few dates, but only if that’s their kind of thing, not everyone is into flowers and gifts were best when they’re personal and not generic
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You haven't seen this person in four years, he is “so far away” and you don't know each other well – why do you think he needs information about your trip ahead of time?
Your mother knows? Then why does he need to know? (He doesn't.)
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Now that you've decided not to go on the trip without your husband, the two of you should plan a trip yourselves. Use this as a chance to give him affirmation that you want to be with him first and foremost. That doesn't mean you shouldn't spend time with your sister, who seems to need you more lately. Perhaps a girls' trip or weekend together would help. But you are very wise to not make a habit of traveling without your husband. I mean, who “uninvites” their spouse from a trip they would both enjoy?
Do I just ask if she does? Not sure where she would find the time as we literally spend the night together…
I think that’s overkill, but would be a nice surprise after a few dates, but only if that’s their kind of thing, not everyone is into flowers and gifts were best when they’re personal and not generic
Of course I would! The end
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Are you worried that she is becoming too naked for you to handle and might leave you for someone else?
You haven't seen this person in four years, he is “so far away” and you don't know each other well – why do you think he needs information about your trip ahead of time?
Your mother knows? Then why does he need to know? (He doesn't.)
He might tell you not to go? OK. He's allowed to say that. You can still go. He is not in charge of your actions, choices, or decisions.
Now that you've decided not to go on the trip without your husband, the two of you should plan a trip yourselves. Use this as a chance to give him affirmation that you want to be with him first and foremost. That doesn't mean you shouldn't spend time with your sister, who seems to need you more lately. Perhaps a girls' trip or weekend together would help. But you are very wise to not make a habit of traveling without your husband. I mean, who “uninvites” their spouse from a trip they would both enjoy?