Yeah I can see how the miscommunication happened. But getting me a gift when he was seeing me on Christmas Eve is just so obvious, how did he not think of that. And him never getting his nephews gifts, I don't understand how people can put in so little effort.
I'll definitely be looking for a guy who's thoughtful by default in the future, training one to be sweet sounds terrible
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What is wrong with you that you accept such blatant double standards and misuse. Its as though all her passion s reserved for others and your existence is to provide her comfort in between bursts of wildness.
What drives you to accept this for yourself? Get out now. No more slinking around hiding your resentment. Tell her to leave and that there is no chance of resolution. Have friends, true friends, present as she is clearly very manipulative and retribution is likely. Do not feel the need for dramatic gestures, explanation, or aggression. Be cold and polite. She knows what she has been doing. Words will merely be used against you. Block all her wretched accomplices.
Christ man, she insisted on an engagement party so she could fuck someone else. She is beyond awful. Act today and stop all this passive aggressive crap. That is what has got you into this. Be decisive.
It's time to move on. If you can't be friends because of conflicting feelings, then so be it. There is no stable future with GF because she will be second guessing her decision for a long while. Best wishes.
You are 23, don't ruin your life like that.
Don’t do it. You will just make a fool of yourself. If she wanted to be with you she wouldn’t have broken up in the first place.
Yeah I can see how the miscommunication happened. But getting me a gift when he was seeing me on Christmas Eve is just so obvious, how did he not think of that. And him never getting his nephews gifts, I don't understand how people can put in so little effort.
I'll definitely be looking for a guy who's thoughtful by default in the future, training one to be sweet sounds terrible
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What is wrong with you that you accept such blatant double standards and misuse. Its as though all her passion s reserved for others and your existence is to provide her comfort in between bursts of wildness.
What drives you to accept this for yourself? Get out now. No more slinking around hiding your resentment. Tell her to leave and that there is no chance of resolution. Have friends, true friends, present as she is clearly very manipulative and retribution is likely. Do not feel the need for dramatic gestures, explanation, or aggression. Be cold and polite. She knows what she has been doing. Words will merely be used against you. Block all her wretched accomplices.
Christ man, she insisted on an engagement party so she could fuck someone else. She is beyond awful. Act today and stop all this passive aggressive crap. That is what has got you into this. Be decisive.
It's time to move on. If you can't be friends because of conflicting feelings, then so be it. There is no stable future with GF because she will be second guessing her decision for a long while. Best wishes.