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Room for on-line sex video chat Katty_Betty
Model from: ua
Languages: en,fr
Birth Date: 1998-11-26
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorBlue
Subculture: subcultureHousewives
Date: November 5, 2022
You should propose!
After you get married you stop having sex, anyways!
At least my ex wife did
Because the reason they are probably cruel is because in the past someone else was probably not very nice to them.
Depends on how close the family is, too. There's a lot of variables. I wasn't close with my father or his parents. When his parents died it was just another day. Hadn't talked in 30 years. When my dad dies it'll be the same.
You dodged a bullet
You know exactly what to do. This is bunnyboiler level of checking up. Hell you could probably get a job in the secret service or the NSA with less background checks..
In the end, he is your husband. You should be able to talk to him and explain your concerns, right?. Tell him you feel insecure with him being close to another woman at work. Tell him you love him and want this marriage to work. Tell him you dont want him to end up falling for another woman because he is being too close or have some grivances about both your relationship. Ask him if there is anything in the marriage that he is not happy with. With a kid, of course the dynamics will change. If he tells you anything, take it with open mind and work together or make some compromises. Dont question him so much,like ' I dont understand, what do you mean I didnt …can you give examples' etc.
In your comments, it looks like you are focussing more on your child instead of your husband. He may feel unwanted.
Also, do you like to question your husband for clarifications a lot?. I see that you keep asking this and giving excuses a lot in your comments.
Your boyfriend failing to know how own limits with alcohol shouldn't fall onto you. Helping him with it should be you sit down with him, you discuss how his drinking is a problem, and you encourage him to not drink so much. What does that encouragement look like? I'd think it looks like you helping him come up with a system to quantify how much he's drinking (think a sharpie to mark on his arm each drink he has while he has them, and setting a limit at the start of the night like, no more than 5 drinks/shots that night) and then he keeps count, and he holds himself responsible for not going over his self imposed limit of 5. It shouldn't be you babysitting him by saying “hey honey, you've had a lot already, you should slow down”.
Not to even mention that you think you should rub his back while he vomits “if you didn't monitor well enough”. No?? That's not your fault, you are not on the hook for him drinking too much at all.
If you think that you're responsible to monitor how much he drinks, then it makes sense how you expect him to monitor your actions too (pulling you aside to keep you from embarrassing yourself when you drink too much is expecting him to monitor your actions). But those aren't healthy dynamics for a relationship.
Him supporting you to improve yourself and help you out should look like him hearing out your grievances with your roommates and working to improve that situation. It should be support in the way that it affects the actual core problem, so that you don't feel the need to “let it go” by getting wasted, so that if you do get wasted, you don't let it go by venting all your frustrations publicly.
You find yourself responsible to control his drinking. You then expect him to control how you act when you're wasted. That is toxic and controlling on both parts. Him helping you to be a better person is helping you become someone who doesn't get wasted and spend an entire night venting about people at the party. You helping him become a better person is supporting him in a journey to sobriety because it sounds like he has a serious problem with alcohol.
Finally, if you aren't in a financial position to break up with him and thats the reason you aren't leaving him, you're using him for your financial benefit. Which, again, is toxic.
You both sound bad for each other in a multitude of ways, but overall your understanding and expectations of a relationship sound controlling and toxic.
How else is she supposed to pick up dudes?
Up voting for the “sweet home Alabama”
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I really don't care. It's a gender neutral pronoun and wouldn't be any more misgendering then using it on anyone else cis or otherwise. I'd suggest you not care either about the use of gender neutral pronouns.
Too? What the hell did GF do?