Have a conversation before it goes to far and this next conversation you have pay attention to how she acts don’t get upset or mad just stay calm and if she doesn’t want to distance herself well you know your answer
He’s the one making the money. He’s the one supporting you He’s the one that gets to make the call on how to spend his money.
I’ve heard ‘I’ll definitely pay you back’ so many times and guess what. They never do. Your sister is an adult and needs to take responsibility for her actions.
Once again. If you want to decide to give money to people then you need to go to work and make the money
I think you at least need to give yourself space from her for awhile. I know it’s very hot but you can’t be losing sleep over this. The fact you’re having such a difficult time coping means that being just friends isn’t what you really want. Cutting her off doesn’t have to be forever, but you have to take care of yourself just like she’s doing. I’m sorry this is so tough. Bad timing is always the worst.
Not a good take, and I guess it's not a secret anymore. Always begs the questions of what else he could be hiding, as well as the need for an app with disappearing messages while in a relationship, as well as lying about it.
I don't him or you personally, maybe he's got a life crisis thing going on, but even with that, he's not talking to you about it at all. I think you're seeing how your partner chooses to communicate, and it's not at all and/or not with you.
You can change the information you give her, and the way you react to her offenses, but she will always do what she does.
I would either cut her off, or keep her at arms length. Only present her with information you don’t mind being public. This means both the things that you tell her and the things that she sees. You may end up not able to invite her over anymore if it’s too difficult to keep her out of your stuff. You’ll have to go out for lunch or coffee or whatever to maintain the relationship.
If it was just some friend, I would go straight to cutting her out. But sometimes family ties are more precious. You have to make the call here whether staying in contact is worth the extra effort to you.
Have a conversation before it goes to far and this next conversation you have pay attention to how she acts don’t get upset or mad just stay calm and if she doesn’t want to distance herself well you know your answer
Then why want to get back with him if he made you feel like that.
At the end of the day.
He’s the one making the money. He’s the one supporting you He’s the one that gets to make the call on how to spend his money.
I’ve heard ‘I’ll definitely pay you back’ so many times and guess what. They never do. Your sister is an adult and needs to take responsibility for her actions.
Once again. If you want to decide to give money to people then you need to go to work and make the money
This is a very very stupid man. Insult the very thing he probably wants the most. I’d have to leave him purely for how stupid he is
I think you at least need to give yourself space from her for awhile. I know it’s very hot but you can’t be losing sleep over this. The fact you’re having such a difficult time coping means that being just friends isn’t what you really want. Cutting her off doesn’t have to be forever, but you have to take care of yourself just like she’s doing. I’m sorry this is so tough. Bad timing is always the worst.
Thank you. I thought I was alone in this, which is, uh… something
Not a good take, and I guess it's not a secret anymore. Always begs the questions of what else he could be hiding, as well as the need for an app with disappearing messages while in a relationship, as well as lying about it.
I don't him or you personally, maybe he's got a life crisis thing going on, but even with that, he's not talking to you about it at all. I think you're seeing how your partner chooses to communicate, and it's not at all and/or not with you.
You cannot change another person’s behavior.
You can change the information you give her, and the way you react to her offenses, but she will always do what she does.
I would either cut her off, or keep her at arms length. Only present her with information you don’t mind being public. This means both the things that you tell her and the things that she sees. You may end up not able to invite her over anymore if it’s too difficult to keep her out of your stuff. You’ll have to go out for lunch or coffee or whatever to maintain the relationship.
If it was just some friend, I would go straight to cutting her out. But sometimes family ties are more precious. You have to make the call here whether staying in contact is worth the extra effort to you.