Comments like this are so dangerous Bc you’re reading way beyond what OP actually said and assuming so much about his gf. we don’t know if she lied Bc we don’t know if OP and her explicitly had conversations about hook ups. and also, why would you tell someone that you just met and you’re trying to get to know that you have a fuck buddy? she was obviously more attracted to OP Bc she dropped that guy after going on a date with OP. The other guy sounds just like a fuck buddy. Women usually wait to sleep with someone that they want to be serious with. OP, If you’re reading this, place read all comments with an objective mind. Bc we don’t know your gf, we don’t know her intentions, we don’t know your relationship. some ppl are just bitter and judgmental and their comments will reflect that rather than offer any real advice.
You don’t have issues; you have subscriptions. You sound exhausting. I don’t think I would want to deal with you. Get more/better therapy and learn how to handle your issues.
Like another commenter has said, I believe this isn't about you playing dnd in the house. It's about you playing dnd at all. Think about it. Not a single option was a suitable compromise and that is a major red flag.
She just wants you to quit playing it all together and then slowly she will take another inch and another inch and before you know it she's taken a mile.
She has said that she was in an emotional affair with Elmer but she ended it and she did. She does not see him anymore because of that. And now she sees my friendship as one as well. Edwina is my closest friend who helps me when I am having trouble with my wife, she listens to me and gives me advice, like a therapist would. She si really good for my MH.
Yeah, she always talks about not having many friends so that could be a factor. She has like 10-15 friends, which I think is a lot, but over time a handful have dropped off because you know, you grow older and life, nothing bad, and she really gets bummed about it.
Yeah, I haven't reacted at all as of yet. When I hear something, I just kind of have a neutral tone and reaction – for example, when one friend said “that's enough for a full time job” I said very matter of factly, yes, there's X number of this and X number of that, there's a lot behind that scenes you wouldn't think of I guess… and the convo ended there with a bit of a sour look on their face.
I was mainly ready to move on because I didn't care much for the divorce after everything that had happened. And I guess the ex and the best friend aren't exactly friends anymore since they had a falling out (I was also the best friends friend at the time so that's how we actually began talking. I met him the same year I met my husband. Just everything between us was platonic) a few months prior
You need to create some boundaries queen! If you don’t want him to have that gf living with you, you need to tell him that you won’t continue to date him while he lives with her.
The reason he is disrespecting you so much is because he’s never had a consequence for it. You gotta let him know you’re not gonna deal with it anymore. And if he doesn’t respond well, you deserve better!!! Why do you think a guy with another woman he prioritizes over you is your best match? You would be better off alone than in an unconsenting throuple
It’s been three years, and I was honestly shocked she was living in my city
That's enough reddit for me today.
Comments like this are so dangerous Bc you’re reading way beyond what OP actually said and assuming so much about his gf. we don’t know if she lied Bc we don’t know if OP and her explicitly had conversations about hook ups. and also, why would you tell someone that you just met and you’re trying to get to know that you have a fuck buddy? she was obviously more attracted to OP Bc she dropped that guy after going on a date with OP. The other guy sounds just like a fuck buddy. Women usually wait to sleep with someone that they want to be serious with. OP, If you’re reading this, place read all comments with an objective mind. Bc we don’t know your gf, we don’t know her intentions, we don’t know your relationship. some ppl are just bitter and judgmental and their comments will reflect that rather than offer any real advice.
You don’t have issues; you have subscriptions. You sound exhausting. I don’t think I would want to deal with you. Get more/better therapy and learn how to handle your issues.
Yes i'm just trying to kill time because the wating is killing me , and trying to figure what to say to her to not breakup..
Like another commenter has said, I believe this isn't about you playing dnd in the house. It's about you playing dnd at all. Think about it. Not a single option was a suitable compromise and that is a major red flag.
She just wants you to quit playing it all together and then slowly she will take another inch and another inch and before you know it she's taken a mile.
Dude just break up with her already so she can starr the process of moving on. You're already cheating on her. Do her a favor and break up!
She has said that she was in an emotional affair with Elmer but she ended it and she did. She does not see him anymore because of that. And now she sees my friendship as one as well. Edwina is my closest friend who helps me when I am having trouble with my wife, she listens to me and gives me advice, like a therapist would. She si really good for my MH.
Yeah, she always talks about not having many friends so that could be a factor. She has like 10-15 friends, which I think is a lot, but over time a handful have dropped off because you know, you grow older and life, nothing bad, and she really gets bummed about it.
Yeah, I haven't reacted at all as of yet. When I hear something, I just kind of have a neutral tone and reaction – for example, when one friend said “that's enough for a full time job” I said very matter of factly, yes, there's X number of this and X number of that, there's a lot behind that scenes you wouldn't think of I guess… and the convo ended there with a bit of a sour look on their face.
I was mainly ready to move on because I didn't care much for the divorce after everything that had happened. And I guess the ex and the best friend aren't exactly friends anymore since they had a falling out (I was also the best friends friend at the time so that's how we actually began talking. I met him the same year I met my husband. Just everything between us was platonic) a few months prior
You need to create some boundaries queen! If you don’t want him to have that gf living with you, you need to tell him that you won’t continue to date him while he lives with her.
The reason he is disrespecting you so much is because he’s never had a consequence for it. You gotta let him know you’re not gonna deal with it anymore. And if he doesn’t respond well, you deserve better!!! Why do you think a guy with another woman he prioritizes over you is your best match? You would be better off alone than in an unconsenting throuple