If I had a partner basically remind me they are capable of cheating on me at any time because I didn't perform a single time at the drop of a hat I wouldn't be “helping them out a little” ever again. That is such an unimaginable level of disrespect.
Wait, your friend only find out he was cheating -and they broke up- LAST WEEK?
This is way TOO SOON to act diplomatic. If she's really your friend, she needs time to heal, not to hear that you're already socializing with him. While yes, you can't avoid him forever in the military environment, you can take a break.
If I had a partner basically remind me they are capable of cheating on me at any time because I didn't perform a single time at the drop of a hat I wouldn't be “helping them out a little” ever again. That is such an unimaginable level of disrespect.
Wait, your friend only find out he was cheating -and they broke up- LAST WEEK?
This is way TOO SOON to act diplomatic. If she's really your friend, she needs time to heal, not to hear that you're already socializing with him. While yes, you can't avoid him forever in the military environment, you can take a break.
Leave her, she clearly thinks you view and treat her as a child already
You needed to communicate that you wanted her to tell you when she got home safe