…. So for the entire part of your relationship from setting up the boundaries to now she has been lying to you, and breaking the boundaries that were agreed to.
You need to tell her that she has broken trust and shown you and your relationship disrespect, and that you are not sure that this can be fixed.
And take back your apology, you had nothing to apologise for.
She won’t be willing to stop being friends with him, and it’s too late to resurrect the friendships that you ended when the boundaries were put in place, so you will probably need to end the relationship with her.
I'm very lucky nothing else came of it! But, unless this guy was doing other really weird stuff, I have a naked time believing this was not something more intimate-leaning.
I know a ton of people have said not to, but I 100 percent would tell his spouse. That is a sexual act and it made your friend uncomfortable. I regret not telling anyone about what happened, I just let it go and stopped hanging out with him. I had another friend who started to date him soon after and it was a disaster for my friend because of this exact kind of behavior.
Oh boy, this is interesting. This is obviously a throwaway account, and while I’m certainly not new to Reddit, it’s my first time posting here in this sub. I was hoping for advice but so far everyone is just telling me why my feelings are wrong. That’s not the point of my post. I’m asking how to navigate a relationship of a distant relative who expresses love beyond how I feel towards them.
If he don't want to get rid of the dog you might need to kill 2 birds with oen stone and get rid of them both. If he is willing to risk his kids life for a vicious dog then he's not right in the head and his priorities are f*cked up. And when you divorce him ask for ful custody or supervised visits without the dog only. You really want online in fear of you or your kids life for the next 10 years?
Oh no I’m not encouraging you to try it – sounds like a naked limit for you and that’s great!! I’d just caution you from holding that against partners you date if they have a history of it.
I am currently living in a beautiful house I rent out with my brother and his friend. My parents are also very accommodating and excited about their first grand baby and have offered to move in with them. I also raised 2 kids that weren’t mine in the past. I hold a lot of love and have always wanted my own child. It will be loved beyond measure no matter what happens, and I do not believe in abortion for myself, but respect anyone who does. I realize I did this to myself, and I will live with my own consequences. This baby is put first before me and most definitely him.
…. So for the entire part of your relationship from setting up the boundaries to now she has been lying to you, and breaking the boundaries that were agreed to.
You need to tell her that she has broken trust and shown you and your relationship disrespect, and that you are not sure that this can be fixed.
And take back your apology, you had nothing to apologise for.
She won’t be willing to stop being friends with him, and it’s too late to resurrect the friendships that you ended when the boundaries were put in place, so you will probably need to end the relationship with her.
I'm very lucky nothing else came of it! But, unless this guy was doing other really weird stuff, I have a naked time believing this was not something more intimate-leaning.
I know a ton of people have said not to, but I 100 percent would tell his spouse. That is a sexual act and it made your friend uncomfortable. I regret not telling anyone about what happened, I just let it go and stopped hanging out with him. I had another friend who started to date him soon after and it was a disaster for my friend because of this exact kind of behavior.
Oh boy, this is interesting. This is obviously a throwaway account, and while I’m certainly not new to Reddit, it’s my first time posting here in this sub. I was hoping for advice but so far everyone is just telling me why my feelings are wrong. That’s not the point of my post. I’m asking how to navigate a relationship of a distant relative who expresses love beyond how I feel towards them.
If he don't want to get rid of the dog you might need to kill 2 birds with oen stone and get rid of them both. If he is willing to risk his kids life for a vicious dog then he's not right in the head and his priorities are f*cked up. And when you divorce him ask for ful custody or supervised visits without the dog only. You really want online in fear of you or your kids life for the next 10 years?
Oh no I’m not encouraging you to try it – sounds like a naked limit for you and that’s great!! I’d just caution you from holding that against partners you date if they have a history of it.
I am currently living in a beautiful house I rent out with my brother and his friend. My parents are also very accommodating and excited about their first grand baby and have offered to move in with them. I also raised 2 kids that weren’t mine in the past. I hold a lot of love and have always wanted my own child. It will be loved beyond measure no matter what happens, and I do not believe in abortion for myself, but respect anyone who does. I realize I did this to myself, and I will live with my own consequences. This baby is put first before me and most definitely him.