I'm sorry that your mother refuses to be an adult and talk to her husband about how uncomfortable he is making you. It's really her responsibility to talk to him about his behavior and how inappropriate it is for him to try to force an unnatural relationship. Avoiding him and not talking to him is really all that you can do, you are trying to avoid conflict. Is there any chance you can live with your dad until you can live! on your own?
Please also on-line your life anticipating that there may be cameras watching you, things tracking your movements, and that he may be accessing your phone.
Be as secretive as you need to. A burner phone to contact lawyers, Ava, etc.
Is he the kind of guy that you think would do anything to try and make himself single – do you feel like your life is in danger?
I don’t think they have a reason, they just want to make you feel small, and like they control everything… I’m sorry your experienced it too. My dad was really kind and caring, but then he had this dark side. You never knew when the switch would flip, and then he was terrifying and abusive or completely silent. It sucks growing up that way, and I hope things are better for you.
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I'm sorry that your mother refuses to be an adult and talk to her husband about how uncomfortable he is making you. It's really her responsibility to talk to him about his behavior and how inappropriate it is for him to try to force an unnatural relationship. Avoiding him and not talking to him is really all that you can do, you are trying to avoid conflict. Is there any chance you can live with your dad until you can live! on your own?
Give her some space. She will get back to you if she wants more
“I'm just struggling on how to bring this up or how to handle this conversation”
“if anyone has any advice on how to initiate this kind of conversation”
sure bud.
I mean, it doesn’t really matter. You and I both believe she’s cheating.
All I’m saying is having pics like that aren’t such a red flag to me considering she didn’t send them to OP.
Maybe it is, maybe it isn’t. But that itself isn’t a huge deal to me.
Seriously?
So she is also willing to spend 50k on you too?
I believe in equals, not this sort of shit.
Please also on-line your life anticipating that there may be cameras watching you, things tracking your movements, and that he may be accessing your phone.
Be as secretive as you need to. A burner phone to contact lawyers, Ava, etc.
Is he the kind of guy that you think would do anything to try and make himself single – do you feel like your life is in danger?
I don’t think they have a reason, they just want to make you feel small, and like they control everything… I’m sorry your experienced it too. My dad was really kind and caring, but then he had this dark side. You never knew when the switch would flip, and then he was terrifying and abusive or completely silent. It sucks growing up that way, and I hope things are better for you.