This is really naive. You can’t save someone else from a cult they were born into, but you can certainly save yourself from getting involved at all. You’ve been together less than a year. It’s no time at all. Don’t hitch your wagon to his when you’re so young and you have plenty of time to date and find someone whose values actually align with yours.
Your reaction may have been the best thing to happen to him, maybe he will be motivated to get some help. I don't think you are overreacting. There wasn't a discussion in advance about your likes and dislikes and you felt violated.
You’ll be ok. You just need to meet a guy who will make you forget all about this.
I'll take it easy on you daddy 😉
You are not sensitive he’s an AH
This is really naive. You can’t save someone else from a cult they were born into, but you can certainly save yourself from getting involved at all. You’ve been together less than a year. It’s no time at all. Don’t hitch your wagon to his when you’re so young and you have plenty of time to date and find someone whose values actually align with yours.
How do you NOT talk about the what if?
Best time to tell her is when you found out and second best time to tell her is right now
So you lift the lid and seat after you're done using the toilet?
Your reaction may have been the best thing to happen to him, maybe he will be motivated to get some help. I don't think you are overreacting. There wasn't a discussion in advance about your likes and dislikes and you felt violated.
Saving this ?
Saving this ?
its so sad & hurtful to the partners/spouse as its often abused by as*holes as you mentioned “testing the waters”.
Don’t let her gaslight you into thinking you’re the bad guy here. She needs to take your feelings seriously. Let her be mad all she wants.
He’s allowed to drink. You can control him. You want to be alcohol free then do so. You have a problem with alcohol you deal with that.
Oh my god your friend is a monster for thinking that