Obviously, that ongoing “joke” should have immediately stopped the minute u got into a relationship and possibly not have even existed because it's not a good “joke”
I'd say leave her alone for a few days so she can calm down, and u can collect ur thoughts properly before speaking to her about it all.
Someone is going to be miserable no matter what. The conversation needs to start with her telling the truth that she eavesdropped on a private moment. That’s unacceptable. Yes it should be a discussion obviously but had she not snooped in then she wouldn’t be questioning her original choice so much.
I was mostly with Anne till the story about her going behind your back to give a group gift to your folks by herself. that is just a shitty thing to do to you.
in terms of how to proceed, i would say just do holidays with Beth, and tell your parents/Anne they are welcome to come over after.
also – if you dont like going to Anne's for holidays, just start hosting your own. invite whoever you want, and have fun. if people cant/wont come, then dont sweat it.
You should have left the moment he told you to not to talk to other men. Period.
You're both sick
You should have left this comment behind.
Obviously, that ongoing “joke” should have immediately stopped the minute u got into a relationship and possibly not have even existed because it's not a good “joke”
I'd say leave her alone for a few days so she can calm down, and u can collect ur thoughts properly before speaking to her about it all.
Block the bish, move on
Someone is going to be miserable no matter what. The conversation needs to start with her telling the truth that she eavesdropped on a private moment. That’s unacceptable. Yes it should be a discussion obviously but had she not snooped in then she wouldn’t be questioning her original choice so much.
I was mostly with Anne till the story about her going behind your back to give a group gift to your folks by herself. that is just a shitty thing to do to you.
in terms of how to proceed, i would say just do holidays with Beth, and tell your parents/Anne they are welcome to come over after.
also – if you dont like going to Anne's for holidays, just start hosting your own. invite whoever you want, and have fun. if people cant/wont come, then dont sweat it.
Leave him.