Wow ok firstly, nude is a sexual term to US. Not once has he ever used the word to anyone or in any context unless it was directed at me. Hence when this has been on my mind.
Secondly, I NEVER said I was mad at my BF, I’m not, I said I’m a little uncomfortable at how the word was used. I am not going to explode on my boyfriend or tell him off or say he is wrong, NOTHING of the sort is or will be coming from my mouth. I am unsure of how to exactly feel about him calling another woman that when for three years he has not ONCE called a woman nude other than me.
Also never said I was upset at him, I am UNCOMFORTABLE with how the word was use and having it be in front of me. Never said he can’t ever use it, it’s just something that in 3 years he had never done before.
Again, I know other people will be attractive, but he has always said words other than hard. It took me by surprise and I was not expecting it. When he refers to only me as very hot and then he refers to another girl that way, It was on my mind.
So thank you for saying I’m being a crazy bitch, didn’t realize asking for advice on a situation I’ve never been in before and literally saying I don’t want to come off as accusing towards him made me that way. If I had acted on it and went off on him, then yes I would agree it is an extreme reaction. However I was literally asking advice on how to bring up the slight uncomfortableness I had from hearing it and how to bring it up in a way that would not come off as “you messed up and im pissed at you”
Also not insecure in our relationship, I have my moments 100% I do, and this is definitely one of them, but I know when I have my moments and I always try to think of how to best go about it. Hence me asking for advice on how to say it made me uncomfortable when I know it isn’t the biggest deal in the world. It is extremely extremely rare that one of us brings up things that makes us insecure because we don’t feel that way very often. Even with him going to a rave concert for 3 days without me, doesn’t phase me because I trust him. So when I have moments where suddenly I’m uncomfortable with something, I get nervous sometimes to mention it. He’s always great with it, but it still makes me a tiny bit nervous.
First, get some reliable birth control. And think about why you let someone in your 1st child’s life when they had only been a part of yours for a short time. I’m a firm believer you shouldn’t introduce your partner to your kids until you have been in a successful, happy relationship for at least a year. Off/on shit is not good for your kids especially with you getting pregnant in between. You are about to have 4 kids and you are 19. Are you addicted to being pregnant, because this just seems irrational.
nothing against tattoo, fam, and in our situation it IS late 'cause tomorrow is a work I need a lotta things prepared. And YES, constantly blowing up our plans for her own things is botherin' me.
When my ex dumped me after cheating on me, I burned the letter AND pissed on it.
Super cathartic.
Dude, I'm not from Britain either.
And yes, it's quite annoying when maga(ots) Always assume everyone is from the USA.
Just because I speak English doesn't mean I'm from UK or USA. Some people used their time to learn more than one language you know?
She has a bf and is hiding you. Probably told them she’s divorced.
So then be honest come clean and deal with the consequences.
You continuing to lie is from the same root as you looking in her phone. Fear. Stop letting it control you.
Take responsibility for your own life
Wow ok firstly, nude is a sexual term to US. Not once has he ever used the word to anyone or in any context unless it was directed at me. Hence when this has been on my mind.
Secondly, I NEVER said I was mad at my BF, I’m not, I said I’m a little uncomfortable at how the word was used. I am not going to explode on my boyfriend or tell him off or say he is wrong, NOTHING of the sort is or will be coming from my mouth. I am unsure of how to exactly feel about him calling another woman that when for three years he has not ONCE called a woman nude other than me.
Also never said I was upset at him, I am UNCOMFORTABLE with how the word was use and having it be in front of me. Never said he can’t ever use it, it’s just something that in 3 years he had never done before.
Again, I know other people will be attractive, but he has always said words other than hard. It took me by surprise and I was not expecting it. When he refers to only me as very hot and then he refers to another girl that way, It was on my mind.
So thank you for saying I’m being a crazy bitch, didn’t realize asking for advice on a situation I’ve never been in before and literally saying I don’t want to come off as accusing towards him made me that way. If I had acted on it and went off on him, then yes I would agree it is an extreme reaction. However I was literally asking advice on how to bring up the slight uncomfortableness I had from hearing it and how to bring it up in a way that would not come off as “you messed up and im pissed at you”
Also not insecure in our relationship, I have my moments 100% I do, and this is definitely one of them, but I know when I have my moments and I always try to think of how to best go about it. Hence me asking for advice on how to say it made me uncomfortable when I know it isn’t the biggest deal in the world. It is extremely extremely rare that one of us brings up things that makes us insecure because we don’t feel that way very often. Even with him going to a rave concert for 3 days without me, doesn’t phase me because I trust him. So when I have moments where suddenly I’m uncomfortable with something, I get nervous sometimes to mention it. He’s always great with it, but it still makes me a tiny bit nervous.
First, get some reliable birth control. And think about why you let someone in your 1st child’s life when they had only been a part of yours for a short time. I’m a firm believer you shouldn’t introduce your partner to your kids until you have been in a successful, happy relationship for at least a year. Off/on shit is not good for your kids especially with you getting pregnant in between. You are about to have 4 kids and you are 19. Are you addicted to being pregnant, because this just seems irrational.
Where is he continuously making these comments to her?
nothing against tattoo, fam, and in our situation it IS late 'cause tomorrow is a work I need a lotta things prepared. And YES, constantly blowing up our plans for her own things is botherin' me.
Thank you