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Kimber Haven, 49 y.o.
Location: Kentucky, United States
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Online Live Sex Chat rooms Kimber Haven
Date: October 10, 2022
Kimber Haven, 49 y.o.
Location: Kentucky, United States
Room subject:
To Start on-line video press there
Why is this woman your fiancé?
You know you cannot get over this, you’ve had a year if it hasn’t happened by now you need couples therapy not a shitty revenge plot to screw over the men she’s boned. They are no more responsible for this than she is, would you seek revenge on her by trying to sleep with another woman?
Ultimately you don’t sound at all like your ready to be married to this woman. Your not healthy emotionally right now, and you need to work on you before you can be in a good relationship like you deserve.
He's clarified that it's a neuropsychologist, so there's obviously a lot more than depression going on here.
You did nothing wrong. Throw the whole man out
Then give up. If you wont hang out with him then you are not going to get to know him.
Go nuclear and record the sounds next time you hear it from the room. Give your parents one chance to admit it without telling them about the tape. If they dent again, send it to the largest possible group chat of family you can make. Say something like:
“Hey my parents are insisting I am delusional and making up non-existent noises. Anyone else hear anything in this tape? Maybe I am just insane and making up the noise, but I swear it is real”
He’s a liar and cheater. You already know that. He will deny anything you confront home with or explain it away with more lies.
Just for your future relationships you don’t need a reason to break up, you could have just left him because he was disrespectful and clearly looking to cheat
serious question, why is degrading someone sexually different than degrading them in any other context? If he'd berated her in the street, would you say it's not an insult?
Yeah I guess. But after I said I haven’t for 2 months he never responded so idk.
This is rape and I’m sorry this happened to you. The most important thing here is your safety – and staying with this man isn’t safe. Not just because of the sexual assault but because right now at this moment he potentially feels he has nothing to lose given what you’ve discovered. Please find somewhere safe to go with your child while you work out what to do next.
Leading on from that – people will tell you to go to police like it’s something you’re obligated to do. It isn’t. Part of my work is talking to people post sexual assault, supporting them through forensic exams (rape kits) and following up with therapy afterwards. I’m telling you this to tell you that what you do next is your choice, and whatever you choose to do that keeps you safe is ok. Please reach out to your local sexual assault hotline to get the information about what your options are going forward – knowledge is power in making these choices in these times. I’m happy to answer any questions you have but depending on where you’re from my answers about procedure may not be exactly the same as how things are done wherever you online.