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How can I get over this?
Being mature? You sound like a teenager not a 26y woman.
Honestly, the photos would be a game-ended for me. Not because I would be questioning whether he kept his pants on or not, but because the company you keep says a lot about a person. And the company he keeps is a drug user who sounds like he would be the kind to try to influence your fiancé to cheat, keep important secrets, do drugs, give him money, bail him out all the time, etc. I would have a nude time trusting my fiancé at all if this is the kind of company he keeps.
Note: I am assuming the drugs are something serious. It is was just pot, I wouldn’t care about that specifically. Though the rest would still bother me.
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I’ve definitely considered this! I’ve talked over that option with some of my girlfriends who are all engaged themselves and they think I’m being “silly” and that it’s an overreaction. One went as far as to say I needed to wait my turn until someone gave me a real ring but that’s neither here more there. I’m glad someone else thinks that might be something that would work!
I don't know. I would have called at least myself.
Has this guy ever spoken to a therapist or a counsellor?
Because this does not sound normal
His family never ate they would skip breakfast and lunch and were just able to get one dinner and one snack a day otherwise the fridge and snacks were locked which is absurd. It was also only frozen meals or microwave quick ones with occasional cooking if the kids did it. Now I have finally gotten him back to normal he’s at a healthy weight and loves food. Although he’s so picky because his parents never introduced anything out of the ordinary other than frozens. I think this is what’s leading him to eat out. I will cook and he never likes it not matter how much I try to cater to the foods/textures I know he Dosent like but he always finds a way to deny the food and just go eat out.
The locking away of food sounds horribly abusive to me. Was there a reason for that?
I can only imagine how an upbringing like that leads to an unhealthy relationship with food, cooking, meal planning, grocery shopping, etc etc.
Your boyfriend is used to highly processed, highly flavoured portioned meals. From the sound of it, he doesn't like cooking, and won't eat leftovers. So this limits him in what he eats.
I think you should stop cooking for him, and separate your finances so that his spending on food does not impact your finances or the joint household finances. He needs to want to learn to cook himself. And he needs to learn to cook himself. This is why I think therapy might be helpful if he hasn't already done this.
If he's willing to cook, he might find batch cooking and freezing portions of multiple meals helpful so that he's not eating the same thing 2 nights in a row. He might want to add more spice, salt, acids, umami etc to recipes to improve the taste to what he is used to.
Yup! He’s stressed out but what exactly?
My thought? He wasn’t that happy in the relationship and was getting stressed staying in it.
Then why don't you comment on his physical appearance? Or is it only acceptable for men to comment on women's appearance?
You don't need to tolerate sexism, even if it's the 'cultural norm'.
You already know the answer to this OP.