Okay. So I correctly assumed that rather than asking her 'hey, on your birthday weekend would you like to gather with friends, I can check if friend can get the beach house' you instead just ask and leave it to your girlfriend to be the one the challenge it after.
And yeah. That is just straight up rude. Nothing to do with memory, you just don't seem to understand why asking her first ought to be your basic instinct on this.
Okay. So I correctly assumed that rather than asking her 'hey, on your birthday weekend would you like to gather with friends, I can check if friend can get the beach house' you instead just ask and leave it to your girlfriend to be the one the challenge it after.
And yeah. That is just straight up rude. Nothing to do with memory, you just don't seem to understand why asking her first ought to be your basic instinct on this.