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What if she asks him to prove it?
I mean, advice wise nothing of this will effect you in a serious way (outside of a normal divorce)
Maybe you will lose or gain some money depending on who ends up being the kids dad on paper but you won’t lose custody over this.
Just go talk to a lawyer and do what they tell you
At 22 and 9 months in you don’t go to counseling. Not even once. You break up. Period.
They definitely shouldn't get married just cause.
However I personally find it very interesting that OP thinks they're mature/ready to have a child but marriage is too big of a commitment
‘Thought you could take the punches’ – uh, bro, you shouldn’t be PUNCHING your partner (mentally or physically) even if they are strong enough to take it.
Maybe he’s seen the light and realized he needs to change, but he cannot do that in a relationship with you, because he is so used to treating you poorly. He will snap back to defaults the minute he loses even the tiniest bit of willpower or motivation. If he’s serious about changing he needs to remove himself from situations that might trigger his abusive behavior.
I appreciate that. I wasn't personally offended, but I think it's unhelpful to encourage someone to stay in an unhealthy relationship and to suggest that it was unhealthy because they were generous. Maybe you meant it in a more limited way, but it seemed to imply that generosity would necessarily lead to this behavior, and then you leaned into stereotypes about women being childish and manipulative. (“She will begin with tantrums…” “She will become more persuasive…”) The idea that you can “spoil” a partner with too much kindness is appalling to me. Certainly boundaries are appropriate, but the goal should be to be as kind as possible and find someone who reciprocates.
Guess he couldn’t read your mom mind huh. I’m sorry man, please be there for your dad. Your mom is understandably upset, probably mostly at herself.
The relationship is over because she is no longer willing to put in the effort. The FF guy is just a symptom.
Thank you for your honesty and information. Greatly appreciated.
Do you have a lawyer? If so, ask them for advice; they know more about family law where you online than Reddit does. Of not, get one.
Get a parenting app that the court approves of (your lawyer can suggest one) and communicate through that only about your son. She can talk to your lawyer about anything else.