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This is a tough one.
Firstly, you are definitely overthinking things. Porn is a means to an end, it’s a tool used to help scratch an itch, nothing more. It’s got nothing to do with you. He isn’t watching it because you are not good enough, or because you lack something. He isn’t watching it because your boobs are too small, or your legs aren’t long enough. Generally speaking, watching porn isn’t that deep.
If you are are hungry (so hungry you have stomach pains) and craving a specific food (perhaps a meal from a restaurant) but know that it is out of the question (because it’s in another city, and expensive and you are broke AF) you are probably just going to grab something that is quick & easy (like 2 minute noodles). Is it what you wanted? No. Is it as delicious? Heck no. But does it do the job? Yes. (Possibly not the best example, but it’s the best I can think of)
So overthinking & insecurities are definitely problems here, and I do think it would be useful for you to work on those things. Being able to recognise when you are overthinking anything, and being more secure in yourself are always good things, not just in this specific scenario.
Having said all of that, if you are deeply uncomfortable with something, and you have tried to see things from another point of view, then you shouldn’t have to force yourself to be comfortable with it for his sake. This might come down to a compatibility issue. It might just be that you both have different perspectives with no middle ground that you are both OK with.
He doesn't trust you. Doesn't that tell you the answer to you question?
yeah, English is not my first language, might be that